Monday, November 16, 2015


I'm curious how many guys sleep naked, with pajamas or wearing something else (just underwear, t-shirts, etc). For me, a pair of briefs and a t-shirt most of the time but if it's cold, maybe some pajama bottoms. I only like to sleep naked when I have the warm body of someone next to me and I miss it a BIG time =[

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Pray For The World...

It's not Paris we should pray for. It's the WORLD. It's a world in which Beirut, reeling from bombings two days before Paris, is not covered in the press. A world in which a bomb goes off at a funeral in Baghdad and not one person's status update says, 'Baghdad', because not one white person died in that fire.

Pray for the world that blames a refugee crisis for a terrorist attack. That doesn't pause to differentiate between the attacker and the person running from the very same thing you are. Pray for a world where people walking across countries for months, their only belongings upon their backs, are told they have no place to go.

Say a prayer for Paris by all means, but pray more, for the world that doesn't have a prayer for those who no longer have a home to defend. For a world that is falling apart in all corners, and not simply in the towers and cafes we find so familiar.

Saturday, October 31, 2015

Trick Or Treat...

Sorry for lack of the lack of updates for the past two weeks because Peter Pan and I had finally called it a quit. He found a new boyfriend after our long weekend away at the end of August.

In a way, I felt being 'tricked' that he might have been seeing people all this time while we were together, but at the same time, it's kinda of a 'treat' for me to know that there's NOTHING left between us. He had decided to move on to someone new and so do I with my life.

So how am I doing? It's been tough (we had not spoken since he broke the news to me) but I'm healing slowly. There are times I still wonder who's he dating, who's he cuddling watching TV on the sofa, who's he sleeping next to, what can he give PP that I can't give, but I have to block them all out and think a bit more of myself!

Monday, October 12, 2015

Absolutely Appalling...

Last week, I watched a documentary on Channel 4 called Unreported World, which revealed that electroshock therapy and other treatments to 'cure' homosexuality are still being offered in some Chinese hospitals although such treatments have no scientific basis and a Chinese court last year ruled such treatments to be illegal.

Yes, I understand the whole Chinese family values of getting married, having grandchildren, and passing on the gene/surname/whatever doesn't always go hand in hand with homosexuality, but using illegal, inhumane, non-scientific 'treatment' on my gay brothers and sisters is just WRONG in so many levels! As a Chinese myself, I feel so ashamed and sickened by all of this. And the saddest of all is the fact that the Chinese Government is still in big denial when it comes to gay rights, homophobia or being gay is just normal.

Monday, October 05, 2015

Conchita For Bond...

Following in the footsteps of Dame Shirley Bassey, Adele and 'Bitch I'm Madonna', Sam Smith unveils his Writing's On The Wall music video at 00:07am on October 5, which also happens to be (believe it or not) Global James Bond Day!

Anyway, I love Sam but I'm not sure about this new Bond theme. To me, it'd sound better suited for Conchita Wurst. Or even better, just use Conchita's Rise Like A Phoenix as the new Bond theme!

I mean, for Bond's sake. You don't need me to sell this to you - She's a bearded Austrian drag queen who SCREAMS glam. It's Shirley Bassey all over again!

Spectre is released nationwide on October 26.

Sunday, October 04, 2015

Yet Another Date...

Just got home from a dinner date with a guy called Ed. The food was great, the conversation was smooth, and he was very pleasant and gentleman-like, but there's something missing that I just can't put my finger on. And somehow (I could be wrong) I can feel that he feels the same way as I do. His last words before we hugged goodbye were, "It's nice meeting you. Hopefully see you again sometimes."

Saturday, October 03, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

Holy Moly! I'd LOVE to duel this very specific kind of 'sword fight' with Corey Cann in the shower at ANYTIME =P

P.S. Does anyone know where can I find the original video of this set of GIF animations? Greatly appreciated =]

Friday, October 02, 2015

Big Congrats Tom...

So, Tom Daley has recently announced his engagement to his boyfriend Dustin Lance Black. Should I congratulate or envy them?

Well, of course it's fantastic they've found happiness together and I do wish them a very happy future together, but at the same time, why do happy couples always fill me with a sense of bitterness and jealousy, and intensify the yearning I have to be loved?

Some people find love easily and naturally. For others, they never find it. I'm one of those who still haven't found it, until the day I meet you. I hope you are still out there.

Thursday, October 01, 2015


Still alive! To be honest, I wasn't busy at all this week, I've just been too lazy (and watching way too much Netflix) to update this blog. Yes, I know I'm naughty and I need to be spanked, whipped or handcuffed!

Anyway, I went to a boylesque called Briefs: The Second Coming at the South Bank Centre's London Wonderground on Sunday night, and I swear this was one of the most outrageously brilliant shows I'd ever seen in my entire life!

To summarise, an trashy fun evening with a winning formula of camp, fierce, sassy, sexy comedy and circus and very very gorgeous BOYS!


Sunday, September 20, 2015

The Sum Of Us...

Last night, friends and I went to see Australian writer David Stevens' much-loved The Sum Of Us at Above The Stag in Vauxhall. It's a comic drama followed Harry (Stephen Connery-Brown), a straight single widower and his gay 24-year-old son Jeff (Tim McFarland) as they both searching for 'the one'.

The play was hilarious yet very touching. The central relationship at its core was a joy to watch, full of familial intimacy and back-and-forth banter. For a play that revelled in the domestic, there's also an element of fantasy to be had. For so many gay men including myself, the boundariless bond between Harry and Jeff seems unimaginable!


Monday, September 14, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

So, what could possibly happen next? Well, thank you for some of your imaginative suggestions. I can now reveal the rest of the story, which in fact, doesn't seem like a story with a plot =P

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

What could possibly happen next? Well, send me some suggestions and see if you got the answer correct or not! The answer will be revealed at the same time tomorrow. Come on guys, use your imagination =]

Monday, September 07, 2015


If you haven't had sober sex in the last six months, it hardly makes you a raging drug addict. I'm a big believer that intimate sexual connections form a very important part of our general well-being, and if we're relying too heavily on chems/drugs to fulfil those needs, then there's some kind of problem going on. So, WHAT'S THE PROBLEM? Read on...

Saturday, September 05, 2015


Okay, I'm not the biggest Star Wars fan but I'm not gonna deny the fact that this Droid looks pretty awesome! My biggest obstacle is it costs £129.99! Still, I think it'd make a great Christmas present =]

Wednesday, September 02, 2015

Quality Cornish Time...

Hi there, I'm back from Cornwall and I had a GREAT time! Blessed with good weather, we managed to do a lot in four short days.

Strolling along St Ives Bay, checking out Tate St Ives, exploring Land's End, seeing the extraordinary Minack Theatre and Porthcurno Beach, having delicious local seafood at Porthleven, revisiting my old school in Truro, attending Cornwall Pride (which was sh*t), meeting up with my guardians (the family used to look after me when I was studying in Truro), staying overnight at the beautiful Fowley, and finishing off with visiting Antony House. God, I just love Cornwall in summer!

Friday, August 28, 2015

A Cornish Bank Holiday...

This weekend is the last Bank Holiday before Christmas and I'll spend it with Peter Pan road-tripping in Cornwall, where I studied my secondary education for 4 years. So I'll see you all next week. Be good x

Monday, August 24, 2015

Muslim Drag Queens...

Just finished watching an empowering documentary on Channel 4 called Muslim Drag Queens, which explores members of Britain's underground Muslim drag queen community. How do gay Muslims publicly reconcile their sexuality with their cultural identity and traditions?

Now, that's what I would call BRAVE!

Safety Cums First...

SHOWER MATS! Those are important especially for shower sex, which I love! This might not be necessary for all cases, but I had a near-slip recently. No one got hurt, but it's really inconvenient. It kills the mood!

For clarification: Shower mats are mats that have suction cups below them that suck onto the porcelain/slipper floor of a shower. You stand on them while in the shower for traction and to avoid slipping/falling =]

Sunday, August 23, 2015

Yet Another Profile...

"6'4" str8forward sporty masc GB guy for fun, dates and more. Often but can be persuaded... Home: SW14. Work: W1. Some people say this app is getting you down? Remember, salmon swim for 1000s of miles just to wank over some eggs and die!"

Well, as mother always said, "Always be POSITIVE, never put negative thoughts/words in your mind (that includes your Grindr profile!) or it'll grow like weeds coming out your ears."

Saturday, August 22, 2015

Feeling Dismal...

Yes, we all know Disneyland is a fun place to be but I really wanna go to Banksy's DISMALAND to feel dismal!