Sunday, October 04, 2015

Yet Another Date...

Just got home from a dinner date with a guy called Ed. The food was great, the conversation was smooth, and he was very pleasant and gentleman-like, but there's something missing that I just can't put my finger on. And somehow (I could be wrong) I can feel that he feels the same way as I do. His last words before we hugged goodbye were, "It's nice meeting you. Hopefully see you again sometimes."

Saturday, October 03, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

Holy Moly! I'd LOVE to duel this very specific kind of 'sword fight' with Corey Cann in the shower at ANYTIME =P

P.S. Does anyone know where can I find the original video of this set of GIF animations? Greatly appreciated =]

Friday, October 02, 2015

Big Congrats Tom...

So, Tom Daley has recently announced his engagement to his boyfriend Dustin Lance Black. Should I congratulate or envy them?

Well, of course it's fantastic they've found happiness together and I do wish them a very happy future together, but at the same time, why do happy couples always fill me with a sense of bitterness and jealousy, and intensify the yearning I have to be loved?

Some people find love easily and naturally. For others, they never find it. I'm one of those who still haven't found it, until the day I meet you. I hope you are still out there.

Thursday, October 01, 2015


Still alive! To be honest, I wasn't busy at all this week, I've just been too lazy (and watching way too much Netflix) to update this blog. Yes, I know I'm naughty and I need to be spanked, whipped or handcuffed!

Anyway, I went to a boylesque called Briefs: The Second Coming at the South Bank Centre's London Wonderground on Sunday night, and I swear this was one of the most outrageously brilliant shows I'd ever seen in my entire life!

To summarise, an trashy fun evening with a winning formula of camp, fierce, sassy, sexy comedy and circus and very very gorgeous BOYS!


Sunday, September 20, 2015

The Sum Of Us...

Last night, friends and I went to see Australian writer David Stevens' much-loved The Sum Of Us at Above The Stag in Vauxhall. It's a comic drama followed Harry (Stephen Connery-Brown), a straight single widower and his gay 24-year-old son Jeff (Tim McFarland) as they both searching for 'the one'.

The play was hilarious yet very touching. The central relationship at its core was a joy to watch, full of familial intimacy and back-and-forth banter. For a play that revelled in the domestic, there's also an element of fantasy to be had. For so many gay men including myself, the boundariless bond between Harry and Jeff seems unimaginable!


Monday, September 14, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

So, what could possibly happen next? Well, thank you for some of your imaginative suggestions. I can now reveal the rest of the story, which in fact, doesn't seem like a story with a plot =P

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

What could possibly happen next? Well, send me some suggestions and see if you got the answer correct or not! The answer will be revealed at the same time tomorrow. Come on guys, use your imagination =]

Monday, September 07, 2015


If you haven't had sober sex in the last six months, it hardly makes you a raging drug addict. I'm a big believer that intimate sexual connections form a very important part of our general well-being, and if we're relying too heavily on chems/drugs to fulfil those needs, then there's some kind of problem going on. So, WHAT'S THE PROBLEM? Read on...

Saturday, September 05, 2015


Okay, I'm not the biggest Star Wars fan but I'm not gonna deny the fact that this Droid looks pretty awesome! My biggest obstacle is it costs £129.99! Still, I think it'd make a great Christmas present =]

Wednesday, September 02, 2015

Quality Cornish Time...

Hi there, I'm back from Cornwall and I had a GREAT time! Blessed with good weather, we managed to do a lot in four short days.

Strolling along St Ives Bay, checking out Tate St Ives, exploring Land's End, seeing the extraordinary Minack Theatre and Porthcurno Beach, having delicious local seafood at Porthleven, revisiting my old school in Truro, attending Cornwall Pride (which was sh*t), meeting up with my guardians (the family used to look after me when I was studying in Truro), staying overnight at the beautiful Fowley, and finishing off with visiting Antony House. God, I just love Cornwall in summer!

Friday, August 28, 2015

A Cornish Bank Holiday...

This weekend is the last Bank Holiday before Christmas and I'll spend it with Peter Pan road-tripping in Cornwall, where I studied my secondary education for 4 years. So I'll see you all next week. Be good x

Monday, August 24, 2015

Muslim Drag Queens...

Just finished watching an empowering documentary on Channel 4 called Muslim Drag Queens, which explores members of Britain's underground Muslim drag queen community. How do gay Muslims publicly reconcile their sexuality with their cultural identity and traditions?

Now, that's what I would call BRAVE!

Safety Cums First...

SHOWER MATS! Those are important especially for shower sex, which I love! This might not be necessary for all cases, but I had a near-slip recently. No one got hurt, but it's really inconvenient. It kills the mood!

For clarification: Shower mats are mats that have suction cups below them that suck onto the porcelain/slipper floor of a shower. You stand on them while in the shower for traction and to avoid slipping/falling =]

Sunday, August 23, 2015

Yet Another Profile...

"6'4" str8forward sporty masc GB guy for fun, dates and more. Often but can be persuaded... Home: SW14. Work: W1. Some people say this app is getting you down? Remember, salmon swim for 1000s of miles just to wank over some eggs and die!"

Well, as mother always said, "Always be POSITIVE, never put negative thoughts/words in your mind (that includes your Grindr profile!) or it'll grow like weeds coming out your ears."

Saturday, August 22, 2015

Feeling Dismal...

Yes, we all know Disneyland is a fun place to be but I really wanna go to Banksy's DISMALAND to feel dismal!

Wednesday, August 19, 2015

Grüß Dich...

So, my parents and my sister were visiting me from Hong Kong for the past two weeks and we spent six nights in Germany (Munich and Berlin) in between, which explained my shortage of updates. Anyway, here are some holiday photos to share with you all! Tschüss =]



Ever since I started this blog back in August 2006, I've experienced so much positivity and encouragement from my readers. I use this blog as a place to share my thoughts, loves, hates and ideas; and it always amazes me that people actually care!

Anyway, before this gets too rambly and 'speech like', I just wanna send out a big, warm hug and huge THANK YOU to everyone who is reading this, or following and supporting me. You are changing my life!

Tuesday, August 18, 2015

ARTPORN Reload...

Remember Antonio Da Silva, the ARTPORN artist/short filmmaker I did an interview back in January? Well, he recently released two new films called SPUNK and DOGGERS, and as always, Da Silva's works always manage to give me a boner. But not just a penis boner. A boner in my heart. An affection erection.

SPUNK - An experimental documentary where reality and virtual reality blend into a surrealistic sexual collage. 36 minutes long, it showcases digital sex with webcams, mobile phones and the fantasies the participants live through the digital media.

DOGGERS - What is 'Dogging'? Dogging (coming form British slang) is when people meet up in car parks and watch each other having sex. A similar behavior seen in dogs. Sometimes people join in but it is mainly about watching and getting off on it.

Sunday, August 02, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

I know this is kinda a very random question but do you happen to have a 'thing' for watching a fit hairy man wanking his hard cock till he cums with a deep moan? If yes, then you are in for a TREAT!

Friday, July 24, 2015

Sad Studs...

If you love Taylor Swift's Bad Blood music video like I do, then prepare yourself for this amazing parody video called Sad Studs from Jeffery Self & Jake Wilson with an IMPORTANT message, which we have the same 1-year ban in the UK.

P.S. Can I have 3-Legs (played by Jared Techau) please?