Wednesday, January 06, 2016

A Song To PP...

By now, most of you would have listened to Adele's new album 25, and out of the 11 tracks, Send My Love (To Your New Lover) is definitely my favourite because the title itself is very Adele, it's upbeat and positive, and I can so relate to the lyrics of the song with my recent breakup. By the way, fantastic cover by The Johnsons!

Saturday, January 02, 2016

Only Love...

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE and I'd like to start off 2016 by sharing a brave and positive message to all my readers!

Ryan Mahon, a gay man in London, began his 2016 by posting a heroic video onto his Facebook Friday morning, which he said occurred around 5am on New Year's Day when he witnessed a homophobic passenger shouting verbal abuse at a drag queen on the Tube after celebrating New Years with his friends.

And guess what? These THINGS are still happening in the heart of London! I understand we all have our opinion, but if you can't refrain from insulting someone you barely know in public based on their religion, sexual identity, gender, or race, then you are an idiot! Oh, and for your information, God only loves and never hates!

On another point, Ryan pointed out that, "the most disappointing thing of all, however, was that on an entire Tube full of witnesses to what was happening I was the only one who spoke out. I understand it's 5am on New Years and most people just wanted their bed or a toilet to be sick in but all I know is that if anyone was on the receiving end of such disgusting behaviour they would want somebody to stand up for them."

Come on Londoner! You can do better than that!

Friday, January 01, 2016

Thursday, December 31, 2015

Looking Back...

So, instead of picking five highlights of my past 365 days like I did in previous years, I'm gonna sum 2015 up with a combination of words. And, feel free to ask if you want me to explain some of the words.

Self-employed pharmacist. Big Hero 6. Living For Love. Hong Kong. Seoul. Chinese New Year. Year of Ram. 36th Birthday. Alexander McQueen: Savage Beauty. The Generation of Z. Cutty Zark. Avengers: Age of Ultron. 2015 UK General Election. Iceland. MCM London Comic Con. Andrew Salgado. Legoland. Jurassic World. Charlie Siem. US Gay Marriage. Pride London 2015. Sherk-tacular! Pluto. Inside Out. Munich. Berlin. Cornwall. Truro School. Breakup (again). Peter Pan. Dismaland. Thorpe Park Fright Night. Spectre. San Francisco. Chicago. Rebel Heart Tour. Cologne. Christmas Markets. The Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 2. Gay wedding. Star Wars: The Force Awakens. Christmas. 2016!

Friday, December 25, 2015

Merry X'mas 2 U All...

It's Christmas time and I'd like to thank you all for following me and being here always for me for better or for worse. It really means a lot to me! I LOVE YOU ALL and I'm thankful to have you as my followers! I wish you all a very Merry Christmas In the Bleak Midwinter

Thursday, December 24, 2015

A Hunky Holidays...

The last final stretch heading into Christmas can be a stressful time. Dealing with the crowds, last minute shopping and juggling an overbooked social schedule, can easily lead to a mini meltdown. Save your sanity by taking a quick timeout to check out this sexy distraction.

Hunkappella LA (how adorable is that name?) get into the holiday spirit by singing some of your favorite seasonal classics. Not only are they pleasing to your ears, the quintet also serve a tasty treat to your other senses, specifically your eyes. They appear shirtless in several of their Yuletide getups. Watch the cute mashup clip below.

Monday, November 16, 2015


I'm curious how many guys sleep naked, with pajamas or wearing something else (just underwear, t-shirts, etc). For me, a pair of briefs and a t-shirt most of the time but if it's cold, maybe some pajama bottoms. I only like to sleep naked when I have the warm body of someone next to me and I miss it a BIG time =[

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Pray For The World...

It's not Paris we should pray for. It's the WORLD. It's a world in which Beirut, reeling from bombings two days before Paris, is not covered in the press. A world in which a bomb goes off at a funeral in Baghdad and not one person's status update says, 'Baghdad', because not one white person died in that fire.

Pray for the world that blames a refugee crisis for a terrorist attack. That doesn't pause to differentiate between the attacker and the person running from the very same thing you are. Pray for a world where people walking across countries for months, their only belongings upon their backs, are told they have no place to go.

Say a prayer for Paris by all means, but pray more, for the world that doesn't have a prayer for those who no longer have a home to defend. For a world that is falling apart in all corners, and not simply in the towers and cafes we find so familiar.

Saturday, October 31, 2015

Trick Or Treat...

Sorry for lack of the lack of updates for the past two weeks because Peter Pan and I had finally called it a quit. He found a new boyfriend after our long weekend away at the end of August.

In a way, I felt being 'tricked' that he might have been seeing people all this time while we were together, but at the same time, it's kinda of a 'treat' for me to know that there's NOTHING left between us. He had decided to move on to someone new and so do I with my life.

So how am I doing? It's been tough (we had not spoken since he broke the news to me) but I'm healing slowly. There are times I still wonder who's he dating, who's he cuddling watching TV on the sofa, who's he sleeping next to, what can he give PP that I can't give, but I have to block them all out and think a bit more of myself!

Monday, October 12, 2015

Absolutely Appalling...

Last week, I watched a documentary on Channel 4 called Unreported World, which revealed that electroshock therapy and other treatments to 'cure' homosexuality are still being offered in some Chinese hospitals although such treatments have no scientific basis and a Chinese court last year ruled such treatments to be illegal.

Yes, I understand the whole Chinese family values of getting married, having grandchildren, and passing on the gene/surname/whatever doesn't always go hand in hand with homosexuality, but using illegal, inhumane, non-scientific 'treatment' on my gay brothers and sisters is just WRONG in so many levels! As a Chinese myself, I feel so ashamed and sickened by all of this. And the saddest of all is the fact that the Chinese Government is still in big denial when it comes to gay rights, homophobia or being gay is just normal.

Monday, October 05, 2015

Conchita For Bond...

Following in the footsteps of Dame Shirley Bassey, Adele and 'Bitch I'm Madonna', Sam Smith unveils his Writing's On The Wall music video at 00:07am on October 5, which also happens to be (believe it or not) Global James Bond Day!

Anyway, I love Sam but I'm not sure about this new Bond theme. To me, it'd sound better suited for Conchita Wurst. Or even better, just use Conchita's Rise Like A Phoenix as the new Bond theme!

I mean, for Bond's sake. You don't need me to sell this to you - She's a bearded Austrian drag queen who SCREAMS glam. It's Shirley Bassey all over again!

Spectre is released nationwide on October 26.

Sunday, October 04, 2015

Yet Another Date...

Just got home from a dinner date with a guy called Ed. The food was great, the conversation was smooth, and he was very pleasant and gentleman-like, but there's something missing that I just can't put my finger on. And somehow (I could be wrong) I can feel that he feels the same way as I do. His last words before we hugged goodbye were, "It's nice meeting you. Hopefully see you again sometimes."

Saturday, October 03, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

Holy Moly! I'd LOVE to duel this very specific kind of 'sword fight' with Corey Cann in the shower at ANYTIME =P

P.S. Does anyone know where can I find the original video of this set of GIF animations? Greatly appreciated =]

Friday, October 02, 2015

Big Congrats Tom...

So, Tom Daley has recently announced his engagement to his boyfriend Dustin Lance Black. Should I congratulate or envy them?

Well, of course it's fantastic they've found happiness together and I do wish them a very happy future together, but at the same time, why do happy couples always fill me with a sense of bitterness and jealousy, and intensify the yearning I have to be loved?

Some people find love easily and naturally. For others, they never find it. I'm one of those who still haven't found it, until the day I meet you. I hope you are still out there.

Thursday, October 01, 2015


Still alive! To be honest, I wasn't busy at all this week, I've just been too lazy (and watching way too much Netflix) to update this blog. Yes, I know I'm naughty and I need to be spanked, whipped or handcuffed!

Anyway, I went to a boylesque called Briefs: The Second Coming at the South Bank Centre's London Wonderground on Sunday night, and I swear this was one of the most outrageously brilliant shows I'd ever seen in my entire life!

To summarise, an trashy fun evening with a winning formula of camp, fierce, sassy, sexy comedy and circus and very very gorgeous BOYS!


Sunday, September 20, 2015

The Sum Of Us...

Last night, friends and I went to see Australian writer David Stevens' much-loved The Sum Of Us at Above The Stag in Vauxhall. It's a comic drama followed Harry (Stephen Connery-Brown), a straight single widower and his gay 24-year-old son Jeff (Tim McFarland) as they both searching for 'the one'.

The play was hilarious yet very touching. The central relationship at its core was a joy to watch, full of familial intimacy and back-and-forth banter. For a play that revelled in the domestic, there's also an element of fantasy to be had. For so many gay men including myself, the boundariless bond between Harry and Jeff seems unimaginable!


Monday, September 14, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

So, what could possibly happen next? Well, thank you for some of your imaginative suggestions. I can now reveal the rest of the story, which in fact, doesn't seem like a story with a plot =P

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

What could possibly happen next? Well, send me some suggestions and see if you got the answer correct or not! The answer will be revealed at the same time tomorrow. Come on guys, use your imagination =]

Monday, September 07, 2015


If you haven't had sober sex in the last six months, it hardly makes you a raging drug addict. I'm a big believer that intimate sexual connections form a very important part of our general well-being, and if we're relying too heavily on chems/drugs to fulfil those needs, then there's some kind of problem going on. So, WHAT'S THE PROBLEM? Read on...

Saturday, September 05, 2015


Okay, I'm not the biggest Star Wars fan but I'm not gonna deny the fact that this Droid looks pretty awesome! My biggest obstacle is it costs £129.99! Still, I think it'd make a great Christmas present =]