Saturday, April 12, 2014

Gay & Successful...

Last night I went into town to have drinks with a group of my friend's gay friends and I couldn't help but notice something similiar among all of them. They are mostly intelligent, have professional high-paid jobs, seem to be in good shape, very well-travelled, doing exciting things e.g. learning new languages, running Marathon, scuba diving, wine tasting etc., and have a boyfriend or partner.

While I'm certainly not trying to compare myself to any of them (I'm beautiful and successful in my way), but the fact is, they all seem way more 'accomplished' than I am, which gets me thinking - ARE WE MORE SUCCESSFUL BECAUSE WE'RE GAY?

To me, the answer is 'yes' because we have had to fight HARD to be accepted by our families and friends. This fight is reflected in our work ethics and so we achieve more in a shorter time than our straight brothers who have been 'sociably' acceptable their whole lives. We gays are also way more perceptive than straights as we have had to be aware of how society reacts to us in order to avoid uncomfortable and, sometimes, downright dangerous situations, this allows us to recognise, and take advantage of, opportunities sooner than most straights.

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Guilty Pleasure...

First of all, I hope I won't get into trouble for featuring this cute little guy (he's technically underage) on my blog, and secondly, he's not your ordinary boy-next-door or guy-down-the-street. He's the future King of England! All hail to baby Prince George, His Royal Majesty of Cuteness!

Monday, April 07, 2014

Gaga X Roseland...

Lady Gaga performs the last show at Roseland Ballroom in New York City. Wow, what a show and wish I was there! You nailed it BIG time Gaga! See you in October at the O2!


Do you guys miss me? I know I've been ignoring my blog for more than a week, the reason is, I've been busy with my job, socialising with friends, and of course, spending time with Peter Pan. But don't worry, I'm back and I miss you too!

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Here Comes The Captain...

Just got home from the cinema watching Captain America: The Winter Soldier, my handsome clean-shaven hubby's (Chris Evans) sequel to his 2011's Captain America: The First Avenger, and I loved it!

It's dark and nostalgic while filled with heavy, hyper ass-kicking action, great-looking CGI, intriguing characters and intensely thrilling moments tightly wrapped in conspiracy and mystery up to its climax. Honestly, the two and a half hours at the cinema seemed like ten minutes to me. Absolutely MARVEL-LOUS!

Saturday, March 29, 2014

Hip Hip Hooray...

While this may not have a direct effect on me, gay rights advocates up and down the country have been celebrating as marriage laws have finally changed to allow same-sex couples to marry.

As of 00:01 today, March 29, the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Act came into effect, allowing same-sex couples in England and Wales to tie the knot. So here's my BIG CONGRATULATIONS to everyone who made it happen, and to those tying the knot today, and in the coming year.

And, hopefully, my time will come =]

Thursday, March 27, 2014

A Merciful Look Into...

"Sexual relations are proper only between a man and a woman who are legally and lawfully wedded as husband and wife. Any other sexual relations, including those between persons of the same gender, are sinful and undermine the divinely created institution of the family. The Church accordingly affirms defining marriage as the legal and lawful union between a man and a woman" - Latter-Day Saint Handbook 2

Art director Sara Phillips has got a twisted sense of humour. Working with photographer Neil Dacosta, she's produced The Book of Mormon Missionary Positions, a tongue-in-cheek critique of religion and sexual politics. Honestly, the look on these two missionaries' faces is priceless!

Sunday, March 23, 2014


I have to admit though, seeing Gaga back (after being waited for seven months) in her element and dancing really put a smile on my face =]

Monday, March 17, 2014

It's St. Patrick's Day...

May each petal on the Shamrock bring a wish your way - Good health, good f*ck luck, and happiness for today and every day! By the way, I swear to St. Patrick I didn't 'photoshop' the Shamrock into this photo. It's as original as it cums =]

Friday, March 14, 2014


I know, it's gonna be A GOOD DAY. Oh yeah, today is MY BIRTHDAY! Today I'm one year older. My hair is a little grayer, the corners of my mouth a little bit more wrinkled when I smile. But who cares?! After all, we're all getting older everyday, right?

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

A Banging Finale...

So Season 1 of Looking is over and the producers surely know how to save the BANG till last, especially this scene between Patrick and Kevin.

It's just so freaking hot! I think the turn on for me started when Kevin did that speech about how he has to struggle every day with resisting the urge to kiss the f*cking sh*t out of Patrick! God Damn that made the hairs on the back of my neck tingle when he said that!

Monday, March 10, 2014

Guilty Pleasure...

Hot damn! Please can anybody tell me who this hottie is or where I can find more of him. He's so f*cking sexy plus I just love how the angle of these shots makes it look like I'm on my kneees waiting to be served!

By the way, doesn't he look a bit like Russell Tovey as Kevin Matheson, Patrick's gay boss, a "video-game wunderkind" in HBO's Looking?

Friday, March 07, 2014

Yet Another Profile...

"Happily partnered, so mainly here to perve over sexy local gays while procrastinating. Work in media/tech. Much smilier than I appear. Enjoy gym but, disappointingly, also cake. P.S. Face pics raise reply chances."

What a coincidence! I also enjoy gym and cakes, especially when they are sticky (sweaty) and sweet! Can we get together?

Thursday, March 06, 2014

Going Commando...

It's March 7 today, and if you are in the UK, you may notice the guy sitting opposite you in the Tube, your male colleague at work, the man queuing in front of you at the supermarket or even your boyfriend or hubby looking a bit more relaxed around the trouser area, that may be because they've decided to shun the undies drawer for a day, to try and raise awareness for prostate, testicular and bowel cancer.

As part of charity's campaign, Male Cancer Awareness Campaign have created a day called 'Going Commando' to stem the embarrassment that men feel when talking about health issues. I'm In It, are You?

To be honest, I do go commando from time to time. Not for any special occasion, but just when I wanna feel free or when I go to bed. You?

Sunday, March 02, 2014

Everything Is Awesome...

So, how's everyone's weekend? I can't believe it's already March, which means it's my birthday month and I'm gonna be 35 very soon!

Anyway, I had a lovely weekend with Peter Pan and we watched The LEGO Movie in the cinema and I thought it's AWESOME! The characters, storyline, details, graphics, music, honestly, EVERYTHING IS AWESOME (you'll know what I mean if you watch it)! My only complaint was the dad of the family sitting behind us was snoring halfway through the movie. So bloody annoying!

Wednesday, February 26, 2014


If only Psy looks as good as him then I may like the song a bit more, but Gangnam Style is probably still better.

Monday, February 24, 2014

How Long...

While in thought today, a question came to my mind - How long does average gay sex last?

For PP and I, I'd say on average we last about 60 to 90 minutes from the beginning (cuddling/kissing) to the end (spooning/showering). And the actual anal penetration bit would last about 15 to 20 minutes. I do enjoy a good old pounding, but in general, I think my ass can take a cock continuously for no more than 30 minutes.

Having said that, I guess if two person are satisfied with the pleasure they give each other, then it doesn't matter whether the sex lasted 6 or 60 minutes. It's about quality!

Friday, February 21, 2014


This video was so f*cking adorable and cushy and it makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside! I must say I'm probably more of 'the romantic' than anything else, as bad as it could mean at times =P and Hunger Game at 1:16 is just BRILLIANT!

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Guilty Pleasure...

Holy sh*t! Olympic long jump gold medallist and RED HOT star Greg Rutherford joins reality stars Sylvain Longchambon, Kirk Norcross and Dan Osborne on the cover of Attitude's Naked issue.

Whilst it's evident from this cover shot that Mr. Rutherford is a fan of manscaping (and why wouldn't you if you had his body?) it's unclear what the uber handsome ginger is hiding behind that banner? His gold medal, perhaps? A Gillette Fusion ProGlide Power Razor? Or his fellow cover model Dan Osborne's Attitude cover?

Damn, my mind is boggling... The new issue, which I trust will answer the greatest mystery to ever befall upon my blog, is out NOW so go and get yourself a copy (available in digital and physical) before it's too late!

Wednesday, February 19, 2014


I'm an Olympics lover and I've been watching the Winter Games since 1998 at Nagano in Japan, but this year I'm giving the Sochi Games a miss because I strongly disagree with Russia's anti-gay laws.

I know some of you may think it's silly for me to boycott watching the Olympics, as if it'll make a difference to the homophobia in Russia, but after watching Hunted, a shocking documentary on Channel 4 revealing the extent and prevalence of homophobic hate crimes in Russia, it makes me so angry and sad about how the Russians use excuses like 'traditional value' and 'paedophilia' to discriminate and ill-treat gay people. Honestly, SHAME ON YOU PUTIN!