Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Tell Me...

As most of the you may/may not know, so far I have already had sex three times with my 'online friend' and each time the sex has been awesome fun. He's not just plain sexy but also a complete gentleman in bed, and seriously I couldn't ask for a better first time sex buddy.

Although we only see each other once in a while, I can tell he's always glad to see me and so am I. Everytime we meet, he's willing to do almost any 'naughty' thing with me EXCEPT one thing... kissing (on the lips) which I'm dying to try. To him, the act of kissing is more personal than blowing or f*cking and it's only for lovers, not for sex partners.

The reason I'm bring this up is because some people think that sex without kissing is always sex with the wrong one. Purely phy- sical. But what's wrong with 'physical' when that's all I need for now?

Personally, I totally respect what he believes (although I always have the urge to put my mouth close to his) and I don't feel like I'm being taken advantage 'cos we are still having great sex with each other.

Of course, in a long-term perspective, I wouldn't want to have a relat- ionship based solely on sex. I just hope one day I'll be able to kiss his (or if not his, someone's just as worthy) beautiful lips. Until then, I guess I just have to made the most out of this 'physical' pleasure.

7 comments:

Ryan said...

haha he may have picked a good blog to find nice guys on but to use it like that is just rude

im all for the kiss.... its just not amazing sex unless there is a kiss... it might be great sex... but when you can just lay back afterwards and have every thought just disappear into kiss... it adds the final touch of bliss to what just happened

Saul said...

I reckon it's not possible to have good sex without kissing...For me, sex has to start with a kiss..

FlipFlopsBoy said...

Kissing to me is a natural part of the sex. But, I have met many men like your friend, Pr8, and the sex has been good, without the kissing. It is a personal choice in the end, just like every other intimate act.

That being said...KISS ME!!

about a boy said...

i have to be able to kiss.

Single Guy said...

I"m like Julia Roberts a la pretty woman. I only kiss guys I love or like...with fuckbuddies is sex only!

Anonymous said...

Oddly for me kissing never was a big thing; I guess it because when I came out, it was all about the physical act (bj or fucking). I never had a Girlfriend or Boyfriend in High School or College, so I really never "learned" to kiss. I think kissing is very romantic, so possible it belongs only to those in a relationship, but hey what do I know too.

Yohannes

SickoRicko said...

I need kisses.