Sunday, November 30, 2008

It's Just A Gay Bar...

Last night I was out with a few friends (straight as usual) and after a few drinks, I thought I would have the nerve to have a final drink at a local gay bar on my way home. Unfortunately, as always, I walked back and forth in front of the entrance several times, and then gave up and went home... alone =[

I know I've raised this 'issue' many times and I think it's time for me to stop moaning, but why (am I) so serious? It's just a bloody gay bar filled with gay men, can someone please push me in?

7 comments:

JiannChyuan said...

I think it really is depending on your motive when entering a gay bar. I guess the hesitation is probably you are looking for something more than just meeting some gay men, or perhaps you are afraid you will be the target of others' something more. But if that is your purpose, then there shouldn't be any reason to your hesitation.

Anonymous said...

I can sympathize, I dread them too. The moment you step in you feel many many pairs of eyes dissecting you, then schlep up to the bar and sip you drink in solitude. Eventually, you finish your drink and slink out into the night. At least, that's how it has always gone for me.

Joseph said...

If your friends or some of them know about you & are alright with it, why not drag them to a gay bar once in a while? The company might do the trick.

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Trunk Guy said...

I used to dread them too but once you get in you'll get over your "fear".

I'd be happy to take you in and hold your hand.

Anonymous said...

meeting people in bars isn't the greatest option no matter what gender you prefer.

Anonymous said...

I gave up bars many years ago...and I'm very happy I did. The world is full of gay men...why try to meet them where the drink too much and view each other as objects?

Don't fight your instincts...trust them