Saturday, February 28, 2009

I Am Shy But...

You look up from your book and become paralyzed with nervous anticipation as you see the hot guy you've been smitten with from afar sit down at the table across the room. He's alone today and what a great opportunity it would be to finally approach him and introduce yourself. But the anxiety is mounting as you visualize yourself doing this and you bury yourself back in your book.

If you are a shy guy (yes I am), and don't want to be, dating can be a frustrating and daunting experience. When you are out and about, it looks so easy for other guys to approach and cozy up to other men. Or if you do have advances made toward you, you just want to kick yourself when you freeze up and don't know what to say and feel like you've made a bad impression and scare him off.

This article may shed some light on the symptoms and psychology behind shyness and offer some suggestions for breaking free of its chains that hold you back from experiencing a satisfying social and dating life. So enjoy! And guess what? Apparently, I'm a good catch =]

4 comments:

Edo said...

I [heart] Pr8!

:D

Anonymous said...

There's nothing so fascinating like a shy nice guy...
But that makes hard speaking!
I'm shy too, but usually less then the buds I like; so I always start the discussion, but I never know if I'm bothering, coz they don't speak...
So I give up; and THEY think I got angry for some reason.
So they are disappointed, and stop a possible story before it starts.
Does all this make sense? Yes.
It's the game of chase

Dedar

Kenneth Johnson aka Sebastien Penn said...

ugh, if there are more than three people i'm accompanying, my heart sinks to the ground and i turn invisible

Single Guy said...

The only way to beet shyness is to get out there and meet people!

Jonathan