Sunday, February 22, 2009

Mr. Irresponsible...

It's been a while since I've updated my quest of finding Mr. Right and I must admit that I'm still wondering round the 'Maze of Love' without knowing where I want to go. But I guess it's all part of the fun, right?

Anyway, I met up with this guy on Gaydar called Mr. Lonely (just a nickname) last night. We had a good drink and chat session in a local gay pub before he came over to my place and spent the night with me, which I'm not going into details here =P

I did enjoy the company of Mr. Lonely, he's confident, multi-talented, kinda cute, very talkative, and quite different to the gays I used to be with, although I doubt there'll be any romance between me and him. Amongst the many interesting things we talked about was how many gays would totally blank you out of their life after the first or second meets, just when you think things are heating up. They'll not speak to you, they'll not acknowledge your existence, and at the same time, leaving you in the no man's land questioning yourself what was the f*cking problem? Was it you? Was it him? Did you make a mistake? Did you or he do something wrong? Seriously, it can drive you insane and I don't have the time for this!

Basically, what we concluded was that everyone (not just the gays) should learn to be more responsible for their actions/words. I mean, if you don't have the same feeling towards someone, then instead of leaving him in agony, at least let that person know that you aren't interested! It's better to be rejected (yes, it may hurt) than to be left hanging. So Dan, if you read this, please say something okay?


Anonymous said...

I asseume your recent hope of love did not work out... that is a pity, but being happy with yourself is important too... I have had three great loves in my life and still friends with each of them and they are still very important to me. But love my life and myself too. If your search bears fruit will be very happy for you, you sound likea lovely guy but if not, you can still be fulfilled and happy. Brian

Male To Male said...

You're going to find that perfect male...he'll come to you of nowhere, and it'll hit you like a ton of bricks. (Romantic bricks, of course!) ;)

I'm still single, but figure it'll come when I least expect it.


Cuba2008 said...

How strange that you should bring this subject up, on Saturday I finally got together with this guy, who thought I was everything he wanted as a partner.... well yes; he got what he wanted and I have heard nada from him since.

But I'm not going to cry and fret over this, as I consider it his loss certainly not mine!!!!!!!!!!

athi said...

never expect anything... and be surprised when it happen!

some of my best relations start as a one night stand... then came a second night and a third and i was in it.

by the way: i never had an open relationship. - you see, it's possible. :)

thursday i don't care about you said...

it's typical i guess. I thought I met the man of my dreams a few days leading to valentines day when we met off the net... and just yesterday he told me that he wants to one day get married to a woman. wtfness