Sunday, April 26, 2009

Nothing Really Matter...

Yes, he may make your heart skip a beat, take your breath away, make you wanna take your clothes off, or simply give your cock an instant hard-on, but is this lust or love? Searching for that one special person can be very confusing especially with the first flush of falling in love. So here are ten ways to tell if he is Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong.

01. You absolutely know he wants you as much as you want him. If it's right, your feelings of love are reciprocal, mutual and not one-sided.
02. He walks into a room, and you just have to smile. You can't help it! And when you look at him, he's smiling at you.
03. You do kind and sweet things for each other just because you want to and not because you feel you have to. Doing them makes you both feel good and special.

04. You are very secure in the relationship. There's no need for jealousy or suspicion. This is a drama-free zone. No one plays games or secretly tests the other.
05. He likes you for who you are and doesn't want to change you. Not only does he not make you feel bad about yourself, but also he boosts your self-esteem.
06. Life isn't perfect. You've had your ups and downs, but through it all, you have remained together with the relationship unshaken.
07. He has good friends, and you like who he is when he spends time with them.
08. He does not try to have power over you. There is absolutely no violence in the relationship.
09. He doesn't pressure you to do things you don't want to do.
10. The religious and personal beliefs, life goals and interests that make you different don't push you apart.

Sounds too fairy-tale like? Well, to me, I don't think there's any such thing as a Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong. They can be not right for you but that doesn't make them wrong. People can be wrong in the long term but right for the moment, so does that make them wrong or right? You can be the wrong partner for someone so then are you right or wrong?

I guess at the end of the day as long as you have fun and don't hurt anyone, it's gotta be right!


Anonymous said...

Hi (Hola). I love your blog.
Regards from Spain.

dougie said...

That doesn't sound fairy tale at all, those points all come down to consideration for one another and if you do not have that then it IS wrong. I read through the points and thought "ya, they all apply" and I have been with my spouse for 19 years. If one of those things is missing, then they are not Mr Right. Great Blog! keep up the good work, Cheers, Dougie

thegayte-keeper said...

Mr. Wrong is good for a few things...unfortunately they aren't for the long term...

natureboy0620 said...

If you Don't think there is such thing as Mr. or Mrs Wrong Google Sociopath! or visit Lovefraud or Google Dr. Hare! Unfortunately People exist out there who have NO Concience or Remorse and they have Carisma/Charm! They are not just makebelieve in the Movies! They walk among us! Love Ya