Saturday, January 02, 2010

Get Your Act Together...

For some people, a New Year's resolution is something that goes in one year and out the other. Nevertheless, if you wanna start the New Year with a promise or resolution that will guarantee a better 2010, here are the top New Year's resolutions for gay men.

Journal/Blog ACHIEVED
Don't go down the bitter highway. Release all of your baggage from the previous year by blogging or journaling. If you are an old schooler, grab a pink notebook and write your thoughts freestyle every day. Don't worry about grammar or spelling. This journal is for you. For the tech nerds like myself, create a personal blog.

No More Drama
Must gay and drama go hand-in-hand? This New Year, gays around the world are making a pact to eliminate the nasty rumors, lost friendships and petty arguments that spice up our everyday lives. Try a new approach for the New Year: forgiveness. A more peaceful life can lead to better health by releasing any internalised anger and resentment. Give others room to make mistakes and trust in the positive aspects of your relationships.

Mentor LGBT Youth
Why let your life lessons go to waste when you can help guide a young LGBT adult? There are more out pop culture figures than ever, but nothing beats an in-person role model. Career guidance to life coaching, there are many ways you can help LGBT youth. Start by volunteering for a youth group at your local gay community centre.

Fight for Gay Rights
Even if you are not the flag waving type, there's still an opportunity to help further gay equality. Check out Stonewall for more info on how to get involved!

The anxiety of getting an HIV test and the fear of a life-changing result is overwhelming, but the freedom that comes along with knowing your status is worth the tension. Why leave your health up to chance?

Come Out to Yourself ACHIEVED
Coming out is a process that unfolds at your own pace. This may be the year for you to be free! The first step to understanding your sexuality is self-reflection. Don't skip this important step on your way out of the closet. Get to know yourself this New Year and create the life you desire.

Shed Bad Influences ACHIEVED
Bad influences come in many forms: drug and alcohol addiction, sex addiction or even that cute guy who tells you he can't have sex while wearing a condom. You don't have to be a victim. Besides, doing drugs and barebacking is so last year! Create a brand new you in a brand new year by kicking an old habit and knowing your boundaries. Recognize your own addictions and test your safe sex practices. As the old saying goes, "better safe than sorry."

Actually Workout at the Gym ACHIEVED
While some vow they will finally get a gym membership this year, other veteran gym bunnies resolve that they will actually work out at the gym instead of cruising boys and talking to their friends. Lift a bar bell or two and work on that V. Just make sure you do it for you and not because you want to join the parade of shirtless guys at the club.

Volunteer ACHIEVED
Volunteering is not only fun, it's an opportunity for you to give back to something greater than yourself. You can also meet other gay people with similar interests. You will be amazed how many gay organizations that need your help! And remember, you don't need a special talent to volunteer, just your dedication.

Stop Smoking
I'm not a smoker but I remember a friend ever told me that back in his smoking days he couldn't even dance without a cigarette in hand? Somehow he thought the weight of the 'disco stick' was essential to certain moves. This silly excuse is one of many smokers give to justify their addiction. But, did you know gay men are at higher risk for lung cancer? This year, break the habit, reduce your smoky laundry bill and try that dance spin without a fag (cigarette, that is).

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