Sunday, February 28, 2010

Love It Or Hate It...

The one thing that caught my eyes at the tube station this morning was this new Marmite campaign, featuring a super sexy hottie in the shower with a Marmite shower gel (which doesn't exist!) in his hand. WTF?!

When it comes to Marmite, it's either you love it or hate it, and I HATE it. But if it's him, I might change my mind =P Great ad Marmite, now that's what I call creative and brand innovation!

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Guilty Pleasure...

I know it's not Sunday morning but I wouldn't mind to spend a Sunday morning in the bedroom with the gorgeous Ryan Carnes, the gay-for- pay actor in Desperate Housewives and Eating Out. Just check him out!

Photographed by the Los Angeles photographer Jeff Slater, he skillfully captured the sexy inner beauty of the star. And the fact that Ryan wasn't wearing much made him look even sexier. Don't you agree?

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

You Make Me Wanna F*CK...

It's been a long time coming but BOSSY has arrived! Finally an ode to the bottoms! The sassy 'n trashy new single from Jonny 'The Gay Pimp' McGovern featuring TEAM PIMP (Adam Joseph, Maxi J, Linda James and Erickatoure) is a dirty gay strip club anthem! Enjoy!

Sunday, February 21, 2010


I think it's quite safe to say that 95% of gay men on Earth (and this includes myself) has a profile on Gaydar or something similar.

There's no denying that I have a love/hate relationship with Gaydar. I love it SO much that I find myself logging on nearly everyday hoping to fulfill the motto of the website, What you want, when you want it. At the same time, I hate it SO much that I keep asking myself, "I've been on it for almost two years and I still haven't found what I truly wanted. Does it really work?"

Well, despite it's a time-wasting (most of the time), unproductive (sometimes), frustrating (once in a while) and addictive (all the time) website, I can assure you that Gaydar can work wonders or be a total disaster, and it all depends on what your expectations are.

From my experience, the lower my expectations, the more likely I'm to enjoy Gaydar. So based on the four 'interested in meeting for...' categories in the website, it's no surprise that it's easier to find 1-on-1 sex/group sex, email/chat or other activities (whatever that means) than friendship or relationship, which leads me to another question, "Why does Gaydar bother to give us the 'relationship' option when majority of the guys don't really mean it?"

Yes, I may take the whole Gaydar thing far too serious, but what I try to say is that when it comes to love, no matter how many miracles Gaydar performed, I'm kinda lost my faith in it. However, when it comes to hooking up, Gaydar definitely has its cruising reputation of What you want, when you want it.

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Bella Italia...

Seriously, who'd have thought a plate of Fetuccini Carbonara could provoke so much fun? Only at Alessio In Wonderland!

Thursday, February 18, 2010

And The Winner Goes To...

Guess what? I've received an email from Best Gay Blog today saying that The Ministry of Pleasure has won the Best Adult Gay Blog of 2009! To be honest, my blog has never received an award of this kind before, so you can imagine how excited I was to learn that I won! It really is an honor for me to be recognised by all those who voted for TMOP! Thank you =]

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Guilty Pleasure...

This is a fine specimen of how masturbation should be done. Letting the cock do all the work, letting the cock have centre stage and letting the inner horniness OUT!

I just love how comfortable he looks with his tight body. But the real question is, what exactly is he watching on his monitor? Could it be himself or someone else?

Hmm, I'm so sorry that the video may not work as well as I thought. If you experience any problem, try HERE. Enjoy!

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Weekly Poll...

What's common between Chinese New Year and Valentine's Day? Well, they both have red as the colour of luck, passion and romance. So, why don't you pick a pair of the Lucky Red which will give you luck, passion and romance?


So, what should I do when Chinese New Year falls on the same day as Valentine's day? Well, the answer is simple. I'll be celebrating Chinese New Year because I have no valentine to celebrate Valentine's Day with. Problem solved! Gong Xi Fa Chai =]

Having said that, I'd dare Cupid to shoot me with an arrow of love as long as I'm alive, you hear me? Happy Valentine's Day!

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Lads At The Yard...

Guess what? On Thursday me and my housemate were invited as VIP at The Yard for Englishlads' spectacular one-off alt-Valentine's party and it's absolutely FAB!

Without spending a penny, we had drinks, freebies and photos taken with the hottest lads from Englishlads! Perhaps the only disappointment was that we didn't win the charity auction to bring them out for dinner!

I mean, let's face it, who would spend £300 on all four of them? Well, the hot guy in red t-shirt did. How very dare him!

Anyway, back to the important stuff. So, while my housemate had his eyes all over sexy athletic Alex and sweet hunky Zack, I went absolute gaga over buffy hairy Hayden and my most favourite drop-dead-gorgeous Jon. Seriously, I had never dreamed that I might one day get the opportunity to meet and talk to him in person. But my dream came true, and he's really as hot and down-to-earth as I had imagined!

Without a doubt, Englishlads knows how to throw a party! Sexy venue, sexy music, sexy men... the sexiness was EVERYWHERE! Believe me, we had an incredible time and it's awesome to be there! On top of that, all the raised money was going to GMFA, so it's a great cause too!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Go Go Go...

Yes, we went to the Village last Saturday again and this time I brought my camera especially for this sexy gogo boy who I didn't know the name of. Hmm, what can I say about him? Well, he's hot, he's fun, he's sexy and HE CAN DANCE HIS ASS OFF!

Tuesday, February 09, 2010

A Taste Of Turkey...

Oh, my dear dear Jay, you just made my day with that Turkish face!!!

Monday, February 08, 2010


It's less than a week from the scariest day of the year - Valentine's Day! And today, I was SO glad to see not one, but two brilliant gay- related articles in METRO, which I'd like to share with you all.

With civil partnerships dropping at a rate of 18% between 2007 and 2008, we ask Matthew Todd, editor of Attitude magazine, to discuss the future of gay relationships.

Most gay men are looking for a serious relationship like everybody else (including myself). The gay scene has only boomed in the last 20 years so there aren't really any rules. Younger gay people like to go out and look for fun, just like heterosexuals, but there are plenty who are just looking for serious relationships.

Living in big cities makes it harder to bond with a potential mate. Gay people come from all over the country to be gay in big cities such as London and Manchester, so they tend to go a little crazy with the freedom cities give.

There are lots of nice, calm gay men looking for love but it can be hard to find them among the hedonism of the gay scene, which promotes an image that gay men universally love disco music and Lycra. Dating sites can be good as long as you are realistic and know what you're likely to get from them.

Well, that's one feel-good article and it's reassuring to know that I was not the only one thinking that way. Okie dokie, are you ready for the second article?

Guilty Pleasure...

Come on, DNA. This is UNACCEPTABLE! I mean, how can our sex god Todd Sanfield has any outtakes in his photo shoot? They should all be printed out as 'hard' copy in the magazine! Don't you think?

Seriously, if I didn't receive an email from YVY Mag, I wouldn't have known Frank Louis had been keeping these sexy photos of Todd from my pleasure. So, thanks for YVY Mag's generosity!

Sunday, February 07, 2010

What Could Have Been...

I arrived in town on a Friday afternoon and checked into the hotel. I was in town for the weekend to get some basic training at the head office of the company I had just begun working for. Two others from my region were also attending.

The following morning we made our way to the office. We drove around the car park, searching but not finding a free space. We got out and parked in a nearby street.

Whilst we had been in the car park, I noticed what was perhaps the most gorgeous man I had ever laid eyes on. He turned out to be also attending my course.

We walked in and sat down. Naturally, I sat beside him. He's in his late 20s, about 6 feet tall, well defined but not overly muscled, had the most beautiful sparkling dark brown eyes, square-jawed face and a cheeky grin topped off his killer good looks.

We sat there and followed the training, all the while seemingly having subtle foot and leg brushes under the table. My mind was racing, trying to figure out if he was doing it intentionally. All too often it seemed that he was, although at other times I wasn't really sure. I never moved away when this was happening and neither did he.

We finished for the day and I found myself unable to think of anything but him. All night long I was praying that something would happen between us.

The following day the same things were happening under the table. Additionally, I wrote my mobile phone number on a piece of paper and placed it on the table in full view of him. I even picked it up and put it on my knee under the table, hoping he would take it. But he didn't. He later was keying something into his phone but it was impossible to know what that might be.

Just before finishing for the day, I asked him to join me for a drink or two at a nearby pub and he happily accepted. We chatted and played pool over a couple of drinks. At some point I decided it was time to ask a test question to determine if he was gay or straight.

"So," I asked, "do you have a girlfriend?"

"No," he replied, "What about you? Are you married or having a girlfriend?"

"No, nothing happening," I said.

"Ah, bachelor, probably the best thing I suppose. Right?"

I smiled back but didn't reply.

My heart sank. This Adonis I had pinned my hopes on was not going to come through for me. he gave me a big hug and finally left and went home, fortunately none the wiser as to the reason for my invitation.

As I left the pub, devastated. I had wanted so badly to be able to tell him that I couldn't stop thinking about him, that he was an angel, that I wanted to hold him in my arms and show him I cared. But now I knew that he could never learn any of this.

Then my phone beeped and an email message popped up with the subject "Call Me Mr. Bachelor x"

Wednesday, February 03, 2010

Guilty Pleasure...

SH*T! I still haven't received my February issue in the mail yet! Maybe Mr. Postman has decided to take it home for his own pleasure? Well, how can I blame him when the photo of Todd (who still is one of my all time favourite DNA models ever) on the cover is this HOT! Seriously, he should be banned from wearing clothes again!

Collaborating with photographer Frank Louis, you can't imagine how thrilled I was to find DNA brought Todd back and made an encore appearance on their 10th anniversary cover. Absolutely marvellous!

Tuesday, February 02, 2010


Phew, my January challenge has finally over, and I think I did pretty well on it. Out of the thirty-one days in the month, I only skipped ONE day, and that's because I had a night out with my housemates. I guess that's forgivable, right? Anyway, I hope you've enjoyed all my entries.

Now, here comes my February challenge/project. My idea is simple, since I'm a new gay in town, I wanna show the world Just How Gay Is London? by capturing photos of everyday things that could be seen as gay, and I'll reveal my findings in a post at the end of the month. I can't promise I'll find everything but I really wanna give it a try, so WISH ME LUCK!

And last but not least, if you are living in London and know something or anything gay about London, PLEASE get in touch because I'd like to hear about it! Cheers in advance =]