Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Food For Thought...

Psychotherapist Matthew J Dempsey talks about the need for validation and how it plays out specifically in the lives of gay men.

The reason I'm sharing this is because 1) it's so relevant to The Velvet Rage, a great book I'm reading now, and 2) sometimes I feel like I'm living my life to please others rather than being 100% myself and living my life for me, i.e. I'm still craving for authentic validation either I'm still feeling ashame to be gay or I have a low self-esteem.

Do you guys have the same feeling as me?


Anonymous said...

I feel the same as you ALL THE TIME!

A S H said...

This video is such a great find. thank you!