Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Another 365...

I had my highs and my lows, had some firsts and some lasts, I lost and I gained but most of all I made it through another year, which I'm quite happy about. Let's hope 2015 will be a better year, not just for me, but for all of you!

Who would have thought I could last this long?! I've been working as a self-employed pharmacist since October last year and I'm still enjoying the flexibility, lack of work politics and good money! For examples, I love my current hospital and I've worked for them since February this year, but at the same time, I've rejected their offers to become a permanent pharmacist on three separate occasions. The reason? I just LOVE my freedom too much! Having said that, I won't do this forever because I do miss the stability so let's watch this space in 2015!

For those who has been following my blog, you must be saying in your mind, "NOT PETER PAN AGAIN!" So I won't torture you guys too much. To cut a long story short, we broke up (again) back in June but we still remain friends and see each other now and again.

Yes! My little sister Winnie got married in Hong Kong on October 5 in Hong Kong. I felt so proud to be there and was so happy for her! I just wish one day it'll happen to me too - walking down the aisle =]

You see, I've been anticipating to see Gaga's artRave: The ARTPOP Ball since the release of her ARTPOP album and I wasn't disappointed at all! Honestly, it's way better than her Born This Way Ball in 2012. In contrast, Kylie's Kiss Me Once Tour was not as good as her Aphrodite: Les Folies Tour in 2011 but it's still camp (as it should be) and fun, and my friend Patrick, an O2 concert-virgin, had a blast of his life!

This year I've done a fair bit of traveling thanks to my job - Taipei, Newcastle (Ireland), Rome, Sofia (Bulgaria) and Istanbul were some of my big trips, and I'd like to do more in 2015!


Today is the last day of the year and I'd like to warm your heart up with this compilation of pictures on this cold winter day. Also, let today be the last day you think of the things that are holding you back =]

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Yet Another Profile...

"Just to make it clear, I'm NOT particularly interested in hooking up for casual sex but I'm mostly drawn to those websites that accommodate men who are."

Err, what exactly is he trying to say? I'm a bit confused =P

Monday, December 29, 2014

Something I Need...

Following my previous post, I'd like to dedicate this song to all my fans/readers. Originally sang by OneRepublic, I much prefer this cover of Something I Need by the 2014 X Factor winner Ben Haenow. The lyrics is so meaningful and if we only live once I wanna live with you!

Sunday, December 28, 2014

A Email On Christmas Day...

Thank you (can't mention his name, but you know who you are) SO SO SO much for this. And I really appreciate from the bottom of my heart. 

Honestly, there were times when I thought I couldn't carry on and I just had to stop TMOP, but it's the emails and comments of encouragement like this that kept me going! Thank you for believing in me and I look forward to pleasure you for another year of joy!

Now, regarding your question on HOW or WHERE to meet gay men? Honestly, I'm no expert but from my own experience, I met my first bunch of gay friends through house-sharing when I first moved to London. From then onwards, I volunteered for gay charities, helped out at Gay Pride, signed up to gay social/sport clubs and, of course, used dating websites and apps like Gaydar and Grindr. 

Remember, gay men are EVERYWHERE! You just need to open your eyes and heart! Hope this help and wish you had a Merry Christmas =]

Oh, and the last but not least, if you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love/meet somebody else?

Saturday, December 27, 2014

Guilty Pleasure...

It's been so long since my last Guilty Pleasure so I'm gonna pleasure you all with something cute, something wet, and something unusual. It's my pleasure to be your pleasure! Enjoy =]

This first video is a cute one with this handsome cutie trying to show off his 'extraordinary' deepthroating skill at a Christmas party. Well done!

The second video is a wet one with this hairy cutie stroking his rock hard Christmas candy cane with a happy moaning ending.

The third and last video is an unusual one with this horny cutie entertaining himself in the bathroom on the train while on his way home for Christmas.

Friday, December 26, 2014

Santa Can You Hear Me...

What are the 3 things you wish your lover/partner, friends or family, or even Santa to give you this Christmas but would never dare tell them or admit you want it so much?

1. Health, happiness, and financial security for my entire family...

2. THE MAN OF MY DREAM... And he'd love me back unconditionally...

3. Dancing Bad Romance and taking selfies with Gaga...

Oh, and on a lighter note (as greedy as I am)... WORLD PEACE =]

Thursday, December 25, 2014

12 Gays Of Kissmas...

So, it's that time of the year again. I know, it 'came' as a bit of a shock to me as well. Where the f*ck has the time gone?!

Oh well, as the tradition goes, I wish you all a very MERRY KISSMAS and (drum-roll) I'll be blogging on every one of the next twelve days, a kinda 'repayment' for the lack of blogging for the past errr... twelve months? Shame on me!

Wednesday, December 24, 2014


What else do you do with a X'mas tree when you get it home? Decorate it with tinsels? Hell no! OVERHEAD SQUAT IT like @danmurphymodel

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Hot Guys...

Christmas is HERE and so are Christmas JUMPERS, and you see them popping up almost everywhere!

Call me stuck up, I'm never a fan of Christmas jumpers. Honestly, I did try (very hard) to find one for my work's Christmas party but I find most of them somehow unattractive and tacky.

I also don't like the fact that I can only wear them for just a couple of weeks a year. It will look silly me wearing a Christmas jumper on a cold February day, won't it? So it won't make any financial sense to splash on a Christmas jumper that is quite fashion restricted!

Monday, December 01, 2014

Are You With Me...

Today is World AIDS Day. Let us stop and remember those who died from this disease in the past and those still fighting. Let us go forth into the future, where hopefully one day a cure can be found for both the disease and the stigma that continues to extract a heavy emotional toll on men with HIV.

The event was first held on December 1, 1988. People wear red to show their support for this ever-growing campaign against HIV and AIDS, and today I'll be wearing my red ribbon proudly and donate few quids to charities! Are YOU with me or what? #NoHIVStigma #PutARibbonOnIt

Sunday, November 30, 2014

Saturday, November 29, 2014

X'mas Cums Early...

Tonight my friends and I went to Winter Wonderland at Hyde Park. It's my first time and what a magical experience it is! Although we didn't go on any rides, the place looked absolutely amazing, especially when it's all lit up at night.

There's a very large number of stalls selling food and drink and gifts. The atmosphere of the whole place was very merry, and really put me in the mood for Christmas. I'll definitely be going again =]

Thursday, November 27, 2014

How To Be Thankful...

HAPPY THANKSGIVING guys! I know it's not really a British thing but I think it might not hurt to take a moment today to think about how blessed we actually are and what we are most thankful for.

For my part I'm most thankful for my supportive and loving family, my close friends (for those that I see regularly just as much as for those who I only see once every few weeks), the fact that me and my loved ones are healthy and that I don't have to struggle for anything. These are some of the most important things in my opinion and definitely not to be taken for granted.

With that I wish you all a happy Turkey Day and enjoy your BIG bird tonight (in case you are celebrating the traditional way)!

Monday, November 24, 2014

To Kiss...

Occasionally I hear about an experience from a friend or just guys who just say, "I don't kiss" when they are involved with a guy.

For me that would be a deal breaker. I think that kissing (and cuddling) are essential factors in developing a physical and emotional relationship between two people who are attracted to each other. We all need that tender touch from that special someone in our lives to remind us that we are loved. Without it, intimacy is just an empty phrase with no meaning. I guess you can call me a hopeless romantic =]

Have you ever encountered a guy either with a hookup or date who just "didn't kiss"? If so, how did you react?

Saturday, November 22, 2014

Mockingjay Part 1...

So I just saw The Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 1 and I thought it's brilliant. Go watch it, it’s suspenseful and incredibly well-made and does the book justice, trust me!

And last but not least, I'm so in love with Lorde's Yellow Flicker Beat, which was featured in the end credits of the movie.

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

S Club 7...

For the first time in 12 years, the original S Club 7 members performed together. The group reunited for BBC’s annual Children In Need Benefit Concert to perform a medley of their greatest hits. OMG, I can't believe I can still sing alone with all the songs!

And you'd be forgiven for not recognising Jon Lee as he's beefed up since his S Club 7 days. Hmm, is he still "looking for romance"?

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Aw It's Christmas...

The nights are drawing in, the air is becoming chillier and Christmas is on the horizon. This can all mean only one thing. Yes, Christmas adverts on TV and this year John Lewis' Christmas advert is SO sweet that it surpasses all my expectations (as it always does).

The advert tells the story of a young boy who has a penguin for a best friend, who goes by the name of Monty. The advert illustrates their days together leading up to Christmas; they watch television, play hide and seek, and jump on the trampoline. It's all very sweet, until Monty's behaviour suggests there is something missing in his life. Romantic films on the TV and couples lovingly embracing in the street, hint at Monty's desire to find love this Christmas.

I won't spoil the ending for those of you who haven't seen it, but let's just say you'll either be smiling so hard your cheeks hurt or reaching for the box of tissues. If you haven't already, give it a watch below...

In contrast, supermarket giant Sainsbury's epic 2014 Christmas advert sees Christmas from a completely different angle. It isn't a fictional tale of a cute CGI animal, or even a cheesy family eating Sainsbury's turkey dinner and sharing Sainsbury's gifts.

The advert depicts the remarkable true story of real events that took place on Christmas Day in 1914, during World War I. On that day soldiers on both sides of the conflict downed their weapons, emerged from their trenches and exchanged seasonal songs and even gifts.

The two armies also played a friendly games of football to mark the festive occasion, a warming image also featured in the advert.

And believe it or not, the ONLY product that appears in the entire 3 minute 40 second-long full version of the advert is a chocolate bar, which one soldier hands to the other as a gift. The supermarket has partnered with the Royal British Legion to sell the vintage-looking chocolate bar in stores for £1, with all profits going to the charity (a far cry from the £95 stuffed Monty the penguin John Lewis was retailing, which is now sold out.)

This year's advert from Sainsbury's is, in my opinion, the best Christmas effort in the UK. I love it because it doesn't follow the same trite formula. It's not a hugely commercialized affair and the strong message of love-sharing at Christmas time hits straight to your heart. On top of all that, the cinematography is simply stunning and it definitely won't look out of place in the cinema! Oh, did I not mention the cute actors too?

Monday, November 03, 2014

Guilty Pleasure...

Please can someone tells me what's this all about? Is this what I'm thinking it is, or I'm confused? Heheh =P

Friday, October 31, 2014

Trick Or Treat...

First of all, HAPPY HALLOWEEN monsters! Yes I'm still alive and I'm just taking a break from the whole blogging thing for a while. I hope I didn't get you too worried.

So what have I been up to since my last blog post back in September? Well, I saw The Book of Mormon musical which was hysterically funny, I went to Kylie's Kiss Me Once Tour at the O2 which was an absolute Sexercise experience, I went back to Hong Kong to attend my younger sister's wedding which was so perfect that made me wanna get married too, and I saw Lady Gaga's artRAVE: The ARTPOP Ball, not once but twice, at the O2 which was totally out of this f*cking world!

Monday, October 27, 2014

I'm Still Alive...

"Sex without love is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best..."

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Don't Let Vote...

Personally I really do hope that Scotland is still with us tomorrow but it's (rightly so) entirely up to them. If it's a Yes, then good luck to you all. If it's a No, with just over 50%, then we really need to look into how to help them better. Half a country hating where it is isn't right. Good luck, but it won't be Great Britain without you Scotland!

Monday, September 08, 2014

Lace Up For...

I'm not a big football fan but I just think this is absolutely brilliant, and it's for a good cause!

Arsenal players have teamed up with betting company Paddy Power to offer their support to Stonewall UK's Rainbow Laces campaign by producing a hilarious video.

The campaign, which is working to eradicate homophobia in football, has been backed by players likes of Theo Walcott, Mikel Artera, Alex Oxlade-Chamberlain, Olivier Giroud and Santi Cazorla in this brilliant clip in the changing room!

And my favourite scene has to be the appearance of Oliver Giroudthe, the 27-year-old Frenchman, spray tanning himself while saying, 'I can't change that I'm gorgeous.'

Tuesday, September 02, 2014

Guilty Pleasre...

Just wanna say the guy in the photo above looks similar to the one I encountered last night. So what happened?

Well, I was driving to meet a friend last night and as I turned onto my friend's street, I noticed a guy walking past but I didn't pay too much attention to him.

Anyway, I found a space, parked my car and as I turned off the engine I noticed someone was standing next to my car. It turned out to be the guy I drove past earlier and it seemed he wanna ask me for something, directions maybe, so I lowered my passenger window.

He's a good-looking well-built guy, with stubble and dark hair with a silver chain necklace round his neck. He leaned toward the window, slightly short of breath and asked, "Hey, just wondering if you are up for a bit of fun?"

Honestly, I froze for a few seconds, trying to think of what to say, then finally I just said, "No. I'm here to meet a friend."

He smiled back and apologised then walked off. Afterward, it took me a while to realise how STUPID I was for not asking him his number or saying something like, "Yes I'd love to. Maybe later tonight?"

Monday, September 01, 2014

Hello People...

Hello people, I'm finally back on track! So, what had happened during my absence. Well, my parents and sister were visiting me from Hong Kong for the past ten days and they bought me this brand new iMac. We also had a short break in Istanbul and I'll show you guys my holiday photos once I get used to the new Photoshop CS6. Until then, be good!

Tuesday, August 19, 2014


Well, it's been EIGHT years to date since I opened my life to the world. I've felt out of my depth at times that I've taken on too big a task by being an 'advocate' and maybe at times I've to accept that I can't help others because I need to help myself. Anyway, thanks for your support for the past 8 years!

Thursday, August 14, 2014

A Sad Story...

Hi guys! I'm so sorry for the lack of updates. Unfortunately, my flat was broken in last Friday and the low-life scum(s) stole a few things including my precious iMac, which means all my previously saved files (music, photos, documents) were lost. Therefore, I won't be able to do proper posting until I have my new computer replaced. But don't worry, I'll keep you guys up-to-date in the next few weeks and hopefully everything will be back to normal in September. Honestly I'm so gutted that I can't do my blog anniversary properly!

Friday, August 01, 2014

Check Me Out...

The metrosexual is dead, long live the SPORNOSEXUAL, which is a cross between the words 'sport' and 'porn'. Think glistening pecs captured in shirtless selfies.

Spornosexual can be found at the gym, often with muscle-enhancing tattoos, piercings and plunging v-neck necklines, or no shirt at all. He prefers to spend his time and money on his physical upkeep and never shying away from 'showing off' the hard work he's put in.

So, do I see any problems with men flaunting themselves like delicious steaks ready to be grilled? Absolutely not in a million of years!

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Gay Or Not...

Even I don't live in Australia, I know first hand that the subject of Ian Thorpe's sexuality was always a burning topic of discussion despite his denial, but it looks like the 31-year-old retired Olympic champion has nothing to worry about anymore because he's finally made his sexuality public during an interview with Sir Michael Parkinson.

And from the bottom of my heart, I cheer Thorpe for being another public figure to be bold and brave and come out and shed light on sexuality in not just the sports, but the whole world. Well done mate and good luck with your future!

Friday, July 18, 2014

Yet Another Profile...

"Hello, I'm a human cyborg, model name JO4Y, sent back from the year 3024 to provide men of all types with sexual pleasure... Oh, and to save the world from falling into the hands of the tyrannical CeliBot, a libido eating machine who enslaved the human race in my time and his legion of EunuchRons. I come from a time in which sex is automatic. There's no need to chase, no need to cruise because there's an app for that. Just turn on your phone and send me a message.

I come with attachments to both top and bottom, and my oral skills have been peer tested and given a 5-star rating by GE. And after sex, if you choose to hang out, I have a built-in bar and sandwich maker.

My other purpose is to assimilate into a normal human existence, so I'm also searching for platonic companionship. Most human do see me as a humanoid sex object, but I also come installed with programs to watch and loudly critique movies, sing karaoke and oaccasionally play video games. I didn't often do the last one though because my great (x26) grandfather was the original Atari and playing with a joystick makes me feel uncomfortable. I do tend to prefer people who have a sense of humour and don't take themselves so seriously." 

To be honest, I'm not a Doctor Who fan by any chance, or have a fetish for robotic sex, but I'm triggered to try JO4Y out. I mean, the man humanoid is a descendent of the Atari, and you know what that means? He can play with my joystick any day =P

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

благодаря Nasko...

So after a lot of persuasion from my Bulgarian friend, who also happens to be one of my loyal blog readers, I've taken a weekend break to enjoy Sofia – the beautiful Bulgarian capital.

It's been almost a year since I last saw Nasko and I was SO happy to catch up with him and meet his boyfriend for the first time. They treated me very well and organised everything from sightseeing to food and staying overnight in a traditional wooden Bulgarian house! What I enjoyed most was to see the 'rawer' side of the small towns/villages outside Sofia. Bulgarian countryside was breathtaking too especially the beautiful lavender and sunflower fields, the lush pine forests and the mountain backdrop surrounding Sofia. Sofia itself is okay. It's organised like most cities but there's not much to offer except the magnificent Cathedral Saint Alexandar Nevski.

Honestly, Sofia was never on my list of travel destinations, but thanks to Nasko, I enjoyed immensely! I guess the old saying is true - GOOD friends makes GOOD time =]

Monday, July 14, 2014

Die Mannschaft...

Honestly you have no idea how thrilled I was to find out that after an incredible run in the World Cup, Germany came charging into the final on Sunday and defeated Argentina 1-0 on the shoulders of a goal in the 113th minute by Mario Götze!

Part of the reason why I supported the German was because I'm now £25 richer, all thanks to the World Cup bet at work, which I picked Team Germany and Team Greece. Plus I always had a 'thing' for the German. Now, please hand over Manuel Neuer, the winner of the 2014 Golden Glove award, to me! Das ist ein Befehl!

Sunday, July 06, 2014

Djokovic Vs Autobots...

HURRAY! I just found out Djokovic has claimed back the championship he won in 2011 at Wimbledon but was forced to do it the hard way in five sets after a stunning comeback from Federer. Great match. Real final. Congratulations!

The reason I missed the Wimbledon final was because I was in the cinema with a friend watching Transformers: Age of Extinction. In my honest opinion, I think the CG was superb and I love the fact that they introduced the Dinobots, but as I expected, the story was a bit 'meh'. Well, at least I had three hours of brainless fireworks fun on a Sunday afternoon =]

By the way, I have only one question - where the hell can the Dinobots go/hide at the end of the movie? I mean, they are technically robots and they can't really 'transform' themselves into cars or helicopers. It just seems a bit WTF to me...

Saturday, July 05, 2014

Pride London 2014...

After missing last year's London Pride, I was back this year for more volunteer stewarding, and although we experienced some 'homophobic weather' of heavy downpours and grey skies, it didn't dampen the spirit of Pride and freedom last Saturday. The parade was as fabulous and colourful as ever, and the LGBT community was OUT in force!

"#FreedomTo..." was the theme of this year's Pride celebration, and to me it means #Freedom to be who you are and what you would like to be because we are BORN THIS WAY! What's yours?

And last but not least, I managed to see Conchita Wurst, the Eurovision winner, singing live on the main stage at Trafalgar Square and she rose like a phoenix!