Saturday, December 31, 2016

Remember Me?

Hellooooo, anyone still here reading this? It's the last day of 2016 and this is how I felt this morning LOL!

Anyway, I'm sorry that I've been quiet for so long. Sometimes the busyness of life causes us to have to re-evaluate what is essential in our list of daily tasks and sadly the blogging has been very near to the bottom of the list. Having said that, whenever friends ask me, "How is your blog going?" I always feel a cringe in my heart, a sense of guilt, that I shouldn't give it up and start writing again. So, here I AM. My New Year resolution =]

Wish you all a lot of fun on the last day of 2016. Be safe, go out tonight enjoy the fireworks and let's embrace 2017!

Monday, June 13, 2016

We Stand With Orlando...

"In the face of such hates,
we refuse to be afraid.
Together WE are strong.
To our brothers and sisters in Orlando,
WE stand with YOU."

Just got home from the Soho vigil in London. Honestly, there's no words to describe how sad I was when I saw the news yesterday. I just wanna stand with my community in solidarity, in defiance, and in memory of those murdered innocently for being who they are.


Sunday, May 15, 2016

Gay Sauna (Checked)...

YESSS! I finally visited Pleasuredrome, a gay sauna in London, and the whole experience was not as bad as I thought, in fact, I was pleasantly surprised at the outcome!

Split into two levels, the venue itself was big, modern, extremely clean and pretty cool (being under the Waterloo rail tracks). Lockers area was very well organized, Jacuzzi was relaxing and enjoyable, steam rooms were small but very 'cosy', and there were plenty of private rooms on the first floor. There's also a bar, a 'video' room and a darkroom.

So what had I done? Well, of course I had some fun not only with the friend I went with, who I recently met online, but also with another guy, who was at one point sitting next to me in one of the steam rooms. I mean, the first was intentional, but the second was a total surprise, and he's pretty HOT (and polite) too!

Now when I think back, gay sauna was not as nerve-wracking as I thought. And I was glad that I went with someone who knew what to do, who had my back when I got nervous, and would leave when I wanna leave. To be honest, I didn't get nervous by the end of it and eventually had a GREAT time, but I really appreciated having a friend who I could follow around and talk to while I built up my courage.

Will I go back again? Hmm, yes, but not on my own just yet =]

Congrat Ukraine...

So, there goes another year of Eurovision Song Contest and the winner went to Jamala from Ukraine. The country scored 534 points with its song 1944, about the deportation of Crimean Tatars under Josef Stalin.

It's not my favourite song of the evening but I could understand the political reason behind it. I guess it's kinda good for the Ukrainians gave the Russians (who came third with 491 points) a black eye in front of the whole Europe.

So, which is my most favourite song of the evening? Well, it has to be Made Of Stars by Hovi Star from Israel. I think it's a fantastic song with impressive vocal. Sadly, it only came 14th with a total score of 135. Others that I liked were J'ai Cherché by Amir from France (6th place with 257 points) and Color Of Your Life by Michał Szpak from Poland (8th place with 229 points).

Oh, and who could ever forget the BEST part of the show, Love Love Peace Peace, a BRILLIANT parody song sang by the gorgeous hosts, Måns Zelmerlöw and Petra Mede! DOUZE POINTS!!!

P.S. And can I just rant for a second about why is Australia still in this year's Eurovision Song Contest?!

Saturday, May 14, 2016

Wish Me Luck...

So, I'm gonna have my first gay sauna experience in London. I hope it's gonna be a good one. Wish me luck!

Sunday, May 08, 2016

Yet Another Profile...

"25 years old, pansexual, extremely nerd, involved in the kink scene, in an open relationship with a woman, vers, working in central. Looking for mates, play partners, but not NSA/one nighters. Drug free zone and only play safe. Oh, please have face pic or send one. Thanks 4 reading."

To be honest, I'm a bit lost with his profile. I mean, is it me or some of the descriptions sound a bit contradicting? Oh well, he's kinda cute and that's all that matter I guess... Plus I learned a new word =]

1. not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.

Friday, April 29, 2016

United We Stand...

Just got home from the cinema and there's only ONE word to describe my hubby's (Chris Evans) latest Marvel blockbuster Captain America: Civil War - AWESOMMEEE!

Honestly, it's insanely, incredibly fantastic from beginning to end, and what an amazing movie from Marvel once again! Team Cap all the way!


Saturday, April 23, 2016

Hey Mom, Dad...

LOL, just found this randomly online and it's just too funny for words! Make sure you scroll down S-L-O-W-L-Y and read the entire thing! To be honest, I'd probably do the same if I have Connor as my friend =]

Oh, could someone PLEASE tell me where does this come from because it'd be nice to see the full video. Thank you!

Thursday, April 21, 2016

90 Glorious Years...

There's only one Queen, and it's not Madonna, it's ELIZABETH II! Today our Queen Elizabeth II has officially become the longest reigning British Monarch, so Happy 90th Birthday, Ma'am and wish you many happy Returns of the Day!

Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Open Season...

"We used to have it all planed,
We thought we knew what it all looked like,
We were looking out on the greatest view.
We were raised to take a stand,
We were raised to keep an open mind,
We believed we'd just sail out through.

Down a hundred miles an hour,
Sitting in my palace without any power,
Alone in the dark, we're alone in the dark.
Thought we could always try a bit harder,
But if the dice don't wanna roll in your favour,
It falls apart, the fantasy falls apart..."

Ever since I heard the song Open Season by Josef Salvat, the gorgeous 27-year-old Australian-born, London-residing singer/songwriter, on the radio, I absolutely fell in love with it. The lyrics is beautiful, so true to life as it is. And the music video is one of the most creative I've seen in a very long time!

Check out his new album called Night Swim! I bought it and every song on the album is a really good!

Thursday, April 14, 2016

Two Underdogs, One Dream...

Just came home from watching Eddie the Eagle at the cinema and what a great British feel good film! Both Taron Egerton and Hugh Jackman were absolutely spot on in their roles.

If you don't know what it's about, it's based upon the story of British ski jumper Michael Edwards (aka Eddie the Eagle) and follows how he got into the sport and his 'success' at the Winter Olympics in Calgary 1988.

It's so sweet and funny yet uplifting and motivating, I think I'm gonna run to work tomorrow =P


Wednesday, April 13, 2016

Guilty Pleasure...

Kevin Spacey is as happy as a sandboy. Just look at that smile! I'd be too if I was front row and centre for this shirt-ripping, hand-licking, crotch-grabbing, laptop-thrusting moments show.

The 56-year-old appeared as one of the judges on the recent episode of a popular Italian talent show titled Amici di Maria De Filippi. Set to Britney’s Get Naked (I Got A Plan) from her 2007 album Blackout, a crew of hunky Italian men, led by the gorgeous ballet dancer Gabrielle Esposito, performed a sexy routine in their individual cubicles. Honestly, why can't Britain's Got Talent have something like this instead of the usual sh*t?!

Okay, Mr. Kevin Spacey, who so determined to stay closeted, traveling ALL THE WAY to Italy and smiling when these hotties stripped? Yes, you really proved to me your 100% straight!

Tuesday, April 12, 2016


Hola! I got back from Gran Canaria on Sunday night and I had a FAB time with a good suntan! The sun, the sea, the gay sand dunes/beach at Maspalomas, the cheap tasty seafood, the beautiful architecture of Agüimes and Las Palmas, and the amazing Airbnb apartment at Tasarte that my friend and I stayed in were all top notch! Will I go back again? YES! Will I recommend you to visit Gran Canaria? YES! YES!

Saturday, April 09, 2016

Yet Another Profile...

"Hello all, I'm here looking at the pics but also up for dates with nice guys. I don't have a 6-pack and can't be arsed to get one, I'm not bad looking so will try and rely on that for as long as I can. Be fun and have a sense of humour! Thank you bye bye x"

Hmm, I'd definitely choose him over a 6-pack in ANY day! Would you?

Friday, April 08, 2016

Letters With Pride...

Wow! Sweden is set to become the first country to issue rainbow-flag emblazoned stamps next month, celebrating LGBT Pride.

PostNord, the country’s national postal service, will start issuing the stamps on May 4, aiming to "emphasise the equal value of all people and the strength represented by people's unique qualities and difference".

Per Ljungberg, PostNord Sweden's Head of Communications, said, "To the best of our knowledge, this is the first time the Pride Flag has been reproduced on a stamp, which makes it particularly gratifying that people will now be able to send affectionate greetings with the Pride Flag stamp to all corners of the world."

The idea for the stamp came from artist Lisa Rydell, and was picked from hundreds of suggestions PostNord receives every year. Rydell was also commissioned to design the final stamp, which features six edge-to-edge stripes in red, orange, yellow, green, blue and violet.

The original Pride Flag was created in 1978 during San Francisco Pride by activist and artist Gilbert Baker. Rather than the current 6 stripes, it had 8, with pink and turquoise representing sexuality and magic/art. These days, the flag's 6 stripes represent (in order) life, healing, sunlight, nature, art and spirituality.

Thursday, April 07, 2016

Look Away...

OMG! Can you believe it?! Eli Lieb and Steve Grand, two of my favourite gay musicians have joined forces and produced this very touching and emotional ballad called Look Away.

I think it's a fantastic song, and their voices are amazingly harmonious and beautiful together. It almost had me in tears, and it made me think about, and miss, Peter Pan.

Well done Eli and Steve! Keep it up boys =]

Wednesday, April 06, 2016

Hola Gran Canaria...

Goodbye rain and clouds, hello sunshine, sea and sand! Yes, I'm off to Gran Canaria for the next four days and I can't wait to top up my tan on the nude beach! Of course, I'll check out the famous Yumbo Centre, where men from all over the world go wild 365 days a year!

Mind you, my friend and I are not staying at Club Torso at Maspalomas, instead we'll be staying in an Airbnb apartment in the mountain area of Tasarte, which is gonna be quiet, relaxing and lots of star gazing =]

Tuesday, April 05, 2016

In The Blue...

In The Blue by Kelly Clarkson 

From your experience, how long does it take to get over someone?

I've been keeping minimal contact with Peter Pan since September last year as he's in a new relationship and I've done a lot in the last eight months to get him off my mind - changing jobs, meeting friends, going on holiday and dating but without much luck, sad to say. Anyway, we met up 3 weeks ago to watch the premiere of this year's Londoon LGBT Film Festival (which I'll save it for another post). We had a good catch up, watched the movie and went for a drink afterward. Everything went well, until at one point, I saw him texting presumably his boyfriend by calling him 'sweetie'. My heart sank, my gut twisted into a knot and mixed emotions rushed through me - I THOUGHT I GOT OVER HIM... I GUESS I DIDN'T and I'm just sad that he moved on. Fast.

Of course, I just carried on as nothing happened and ended the night with a hug. He sent me a message the morning after to thank me for inviting him to the movie. I didn't reply. Then on Easter, he sent me another message to wish me Happy Easter, which I didn't reply either.

Honestly, I need a longer time to get over Peter Pan. Kelly Clarkson is right, I know he'll always has a little piece in my heart BUT I can't living on the memory. I need to put my feet back on the ground and hopefully one day I won't miss him and stop looking for him in the crowd.

Thank you Kelly x

Monday, April 04, 2016


Awww... this is so true yet so many of us, including myself, choose to ignore this fact. Maybe it's time to stop looking for Mr. Perfect and settle for Mr. Good Enough =]

Sunday, April 03, 2016

Caption This...

"I thought my mum signed me up for synchronised swimming..."

Today, a friend shows me a website called SHORPY, which has some very interesting yet randomly strange images from back in the days and I think some of them would make a great caption topic for my blog! Okay, let's start with this one - What is the guy standing at the back with a white vest and what looks like a shower cap/swim hat thinking? Have fun =]

Saturday, April 02, 2016

Guilty Pleasure...

Do you guys miss my Guilty Pleasure? Sure you do! Anyway, I love superheroes and my personal favourite is Captain America (mostly because he's played by my husband, Chris Evans) and a genius animator called Jshsfm has created some short NSFW animations including my hubby jerking off in his uniform! How dare he do such a thing! Yes, it's kinda naughty but I like it =]

In another animation, antihero Deadpool (if only he's Ryan Reynolds) is giving some dude a heroic lesson in the toilet of a nightclub, which is very well done and imaginative!

Friday, April 01, 2016

Look Who's Back...

Okay folks, I'm so so sorry about the silence. Things have been very busy for me since 2016 started and I wanted to take a 'break' from blogging. But, things are falling back into place and I do genuinely feel very badly for my fans/readers, so here I am! I'll slowly update you with what has been happening for the past 3 months =]

Wednesday, January 06, 2016

A Song To PP...

By now, most of you would have listened to Adele's new album 25, and out of the 11 tracks, Send My Love (To Your New Lover) is definitely my favourite because the title itself is very Adele, it's upbeat and positive, and I can so relate to the lyrics of the song with my recent breakup. By the way, fantastic cover by The Johnsons!

Saturday, January 02, 2016

Only Love...

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE and I'd like to start off 2016 by sharing a brave and positive message to all my readers!

Ryan Mahon, a gay man in London, began his 2016 by posting a heroic video onto his Facebook Friday morning, which he said occurred around 5am on New Year's Day when he witnessed a homophobic passenger shouting verbal abuse at a drag queen on the Tube after celebrating New Years with his friends.

And guess what? These THINGS are still happening in the heart of London! I understand we all have our opinion, but if you can't refrain from insulting someone you barely know in public based on their religion, sexual identity, gender, or race, then you are an idiot! Oh, and for your information, God only loves and never hates!

On another point, Ryan pointed out that, "the most disappointing thing of all, however, was that on an entire Tube full of witnesses to what was happening I was the only one who spoke out. I understand it's 5am on New Years and most people just wanted their bed or a toilet to be sick in but all I know is that if anyone was on the receiving end of such disgusting behaviour they would want somebody to stand up for them."

Come on Londoner! You can do better than that!

Friday, January 01, 2016