Sunday, January 25, 2015


Grindr, public sex, body types, fetishes, aging, love, and exhibitionism are just some of the elements that London-based Portuguese filmmaker Antonio Da Silva explored in his collection of erotically thrilling short films, which depict the unique ways gay men have sex today.

A few weeks ago, I came across one of his film's trailers online and I was very impressed by it, so I decided to reach out to Da Silva for an exclusive interview and he kindly agreed!

PR8: First of all thanks for doing this special interview with me. So how are you today? And what did you have for breakfast?
Da Silva: My pleasure, I am feeling good, I am looking forward to visit my family an friends this weekend in Porto (Portugal) and my breakfast today was yogurt granola and coffee.

For those who don't know about you, can you give my readers a bit of your background?
I am a Portuguese filmmaker based in London. I have a background in performance and fine arts and my work crosses the borders between cinema, pornography and art.

What's your upbringing like in Portugal?
I was a countryside boy without any contact with the gay world.

So now you are in London, where do you like to hang out, grab food and go for a drink?
For the past 10 years I have always lived in East London so I hang out mostly around Shoreditch and Dalston.

Let's talk about your films. It all started with 'Mates' in 2011. Tell me, how did it all happen, and why?
I started shooting 'Mates' in 2010, at this moment of my life I had just came out from a relationship of 4 years, I was jobless and I just got my first smart phone. So I started to meet lots of men and also started to record most of the encounters.

Okay, this may sound unfair, but which is your favourite so far?
I don't have a favourite but I can say that one of my preferred ones is 'Limanakia'.

I must admit, I love them all! They are like documentaries, not officially, but in a way, that crossover between pornography and art. Would you agree on that?
Totally, we can also say they are ethnographic films or experimental queer cinema.

What and who inspires your works?
Most of the inspiration come from the places I visited and the people I met. I am inspired from the viewers and the people that want to be in my films and artist and filmmakers like Wakefield Poole, Martin Parr, Werner Herzog, Lloyd Newson, Lars Von Trier, David Lynch, and Michel Gondry.

Your latest film is called 'SOLOS'. Hmm, will there be a 'GROUPS' or an 'ORGIES' down the line :P
Yes I am hoping to do DUETS, TRIOS, ORGIES... there will be a sequel!

Ever had an embarrassing moment during a shoot? I guess it must be 'hard' to stay 'soft' (wink wink)
The embarrassing moments of the shootings happen when there are no excitement...

Complete the sentences, "My turn on button is…?"
Turning on the camera and shooting.

And "My guilty pleasure is…?"

What's something in your home that'd make a stranger think you are gay? And something that'd make a stranger think you are straight?
(GAY) A statue of the Greek god Zeus in my room.
(STRAIGHT) My storage area.

What's the last movie you've seen?
I saw 'Blue is the Warmest Colour' and I liked it.

Frango Piri Piri or Fish & Chips?
That is a very HARD question if I have to prioritise one of them. So I have to say 50/50!

Describe Antonio Da Silva in FIVE words?
Casual, pervy, workaholic, curious, intuitive and traveler.

What's next for Antonio Da Silva? Maybe a feature length film?
An interactive film especially designed for the web.

And last but not least. Madonna. Yay or nay?
I am very fan of her early works!

To watch the full versions of, and fund the creation of upcoming films by Antonio Da Silva, please visit his website to donate. Thank you!

Thursday, January 22, 2015

The Grindr Project...

Following my previous post on how gay couples react to weird Grindr conversations, here is a short educational documentary about Grindr, the wonderfully taboo little app, and the people who use it.

To be honest, I really enjoy this video and what it made of Grindr. To me, I strongly believe that we can make friends and other things out of it. I just think that people make the app, just like real life... Grindr is just a shortcut for that.

On the other hand, with no offense, I think the video would have been much better if it includes some interviews with minorities (Asian, Black, Hispanic, Indians etc.) and gets their perspectives since the majority of users are Caucasian.

Tuesday, January 20, 2015


OMG! I never really liked any of the MoneySuperMarket ads, but I just saw this half an hour ago on TV and I was nearly in tears from laughter!

Monday, January 19, 2015

Sickening Beyond Words...

Today I felt so sad, angry and sickened after I saw these horrific images depicts two men thrown from the roof of a building as a crowd watches them fall to their deaths, and they purport to show the bloody Islamic State (ISIS) carrying out public executions before an audience in Iraq’s Nineveh province. And the two victims' alleged crimes?

They are believed to be GAY.

Honestly, our world is such a F*CKED UP place right now and things MUST change! I just dunno where to start... From war crimes to hate crimes, maybe it'd best if the world blew up and started over, reset itself. Laws aren't working to protect people, police are not protecting people the way they should and religion has ruined the world. Images like the one above are hard to look at, but it's what's happening in our world today, in 2015!

Sitting here in my safe little flat in London, UK, feeling helpless to this situation. How can all of us, not on the front line of this situation help?

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...
I don't know and I don't care who the f*ck he is, he's definitely worth my 1:21 minutes of attention. And so do yours! Enjoy =]

By the way, I have no idea why suddenly all the videos in my previous posts aren't working. If any IT expert can tell me how to 'embed' videos using 'HTML code' in Blogger would be much appreciated. Cheers!

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

What A Kooza...

Tonight my friend and I went to the Royal Albert Hall to see Cirque du Soleil's KOOZA and thought it's TREMENDOUS! I liked it as much as VAREKAI, which I saw in Sydney more than 10 years ago!

Highlights were the crazy flexible contortionists, the tightrope walkers who did half of the act without wires or safety net, the rotating wheel dudes, the Chinese chair balancing guy and of course the super fit guy (above) in the 'Hand to Hand' body balancing act.


Tuesday, January 13, 2015


Honestly, I'd never heard of Charlie Hebdo magazine before the tragic shootings that left 12 people dead, but I do believe that a cowardly act of killing innocent people is just unacceptable under any circumstances. I really feel sorry... RIP those who lost their lives.

Monday, January 12, 2015

Will You...

It's almost a cliché at this point that a little girl dreams of opening a Tiffany blue box from her beau when he finally pops the question. But what about the boys who dream of being proposed to by their beaus?

For the first time, Tiffany & Co. is featuring a gay couple in its latest engagement campaign, who are not models but an actual real life couple from NYC, relaxing on the front stoop of their apartment.

"Nowadays, the road to marriage is no longer linear, and true love can happen more than once with love stories coming in a variety of forms," said Linda Buckley, Tiffany & Co. VP of North American PR, in a statement to "The Tiffany engagement ring is the first sentence of the story that a couple will write together as they create a life that is deeply intimate and exceptional, which is the message we hope to convey through this campaign."

Of course, we're looking forward to the day when the LGBT community is so universally accepted, that ads like these will call for little fanfare. But today, it's very exciting to see yet another iconic brand take a step in that direction. And can I just say, what a gorgeous couple!

Sunday, January 11, 2015

Don't Cha Love Grindr...

For all the Grindr users and Grindr haters, this is some funny f*cked up sh*t (pardon about my language)! Seriously, the 'Philippines' scenario just made me dying laughing! Thank you Trent & Luke. You guys ROCK!

Saturday, January 10, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong. I think the name of this sexy muscle bear/cub model is Sergio Art. I think he's Russian. I think this photo set is shot by Andrew Serkin, one of the greatest Russian photographers. And I think I'm falling in love with Russia Russian men.

Friday, January 09, 2015

Daddy Cool...

Have you ever found yourself in need of a hairy, muscular, mature man to help you pry open that pesky lock in the locker-room?

Welcome to Daddyhunt! Drop your Grindr, junk your Jack’d and scrap your Hornet, because there's a new app in town if you are a boy looking for a Daddy! To be honest, I've never really been down for the Daddy thing, but it's so 'in trend' now that I'm beginning to wonder if I'm majorly missing out.

Age-gap relationships are fine with me, mind you, it's the very specific connotation to being a Daddy that trips me up. Can't we just age and be ourselves without having to become 'Daddies'? Can't we date someone younger without having to call them 'Sons'?

Wednesday, January 07, 2015

Double Congratulations...

On January 6, couples across Florida celebrated the end of the state's ban on marriage for same-sex couples. According to the Human Rights Campaign says, more than 70 percent of Americans now live in one of the 36 states (including Florida) where marriage equality is the law. Congratulations to all of the happy couples =]

And speaking of marriage, I would like to send my big congratulations to Stephen Fry on his upcoming marriage to his fiancé Elliott Spencer!

The Defining Chapter...

So I went to see The Hobbit: The Battle of the Five Armies last night and I absolutely LOVED it!

Personally, I think it's the best film in The Hobbit series and I still can't decide if I wanna be Galadriel, the mightiest and fairest of all Elves, played by Cate Blanchett, or Gandalf the Grey, the most well-known wizard on Middle-Earth, played by the one and only Ian McKellen.


Tuesday, January 06, 2015

Guilty Pleasure...

A cumshot is when the man reaches an orgasm and ejaculates on his recipient's face, mouth, chest, legs, ass or to some type of surface for that matter. The cumshot is very popular in pornography perhaps due to its explicit sexual nature which excites many.

Monday, January 05, 2015

The Spark That Fades...

Set in present day Chicago, In Bloom, is a gritty, raw and real look at young gay life in the city. It follows a young gay couple, Kurt (Kyle Wigent) and Paul (Tanner Rittenhouse), a pot dealer and a struggling grocery story clerk, respectively, as their relationship unwinds. The summer is like any other they have experienced together until Kurt begins to fall for one of his customers. From there, their story of loss and universal emotional unfolds... or, blooms, if you will.

Personally, I found In Bloom completely absorbing even though it's far from being a 'feel good' movie. Quite the contrary, it dealt with an aspect of relationships that is all too often ignored and that is the breakdown. I really enjoy this movie, it's a great honest film I have much respect for.


Sunday, January 04, 2015


This music video by Danish group Kadie Elder shows the beginning of a really cute love story between two teenagers despite the hostility of those around them. Well produced song, good video and a great message behind it!

A pop-ballad sang by Portuguese singer/actor Bruno Alexander with lyrics flow like musical poetry, an element of reflective learning with an optimism that a better person exists within.

The new song of the out gay singer Eli Lieb is about "being 100% your true authentic self" with drag queen Shangela (from RuPaul Drag Race). The message is so strong, to me at least, and his voice is amazing. Also, can I just say... those EYES are killing me!

The four members of BAATHHAUS, a gay band from Chicago, play all the characters, men and women, in this music video. It shows two teenagers before going to Prom and reveals the dense and complex layers that lives inside one simple moment.

Hmm, hot guys in tuxedos roaming around a beautiful NYC with Sam Smith singing in the background... WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE?!

And last but bot least, Shake It Off is sooo 2014! Doesn't matter to the men of Hot House. The porn studio used Taylor Swift’s chart-topper to ring in the New Year. Enjoy!

Saturday, January 03, 2015

My New Year's Resolutions...

For most people, New Year's resolutions feel too much like something they have to do or should do, almost against their will, hence I'm not gonna set myself up to be a 'new me', or re-invent myself in 2015. Instead, I'm gonna keep things simple and 'be me' at the same time.

Friday, January 02, 2015

Holy Moses...

So how's your first day of 2015? Mine was pleasant and uneventful. Besides cleaning and tidying up the flat, my friend and I went to see Exodus: Gods and Kings in the cinema.

And yes, Christian Bale made a sexy Moses and the ten plagues were utterly CG spectacular, but I was a bit disappointed that it didn't include the famous pillar of fire and parting of the Red Sea scenes like in The Ten Commandments (1965) and The Prince of Egypt (1998).

Thursday, January 01, 2015

5, 4, 3, 2, 1...

Happy New Year to you! I hope that most, if not all, of your resolutions will come to fruition for 2015 and you'll still stick with me and TMOP =]

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Another 365...

I had my highs and my lows, had some firsts and some lasts, I lost and I gained but most of all I made it through another year, which I'm quite happy about. Let's hope 2015 will be a better year, not just for me, but for all of you!

Who would have thought I could last this long?! I've been working as a self-employed pharmacist since October last year and I'm still enjoying the flexibility, lack of work politics and good money! For examples, I love my current hospital and I've worked for them since February this year, but at the same time, I've rejected their offers to become a permanent pharmacist on three separate occasions. The reason? I just LOVE my freedom too much! Having said that, I won't do this forever because I do miss the stability so let's watch this space in 2015!

For those who has been following my blog, you must be saying in your mind, "NOT PETER PAN AGAIN!" So I won't torture you guys too much. To cut a long story short, we broke up (again) back in June but we still remain friends and see each other now and again.

Yes! My little sister Winnie got married in Hong Kong on October 5 in Hong Kong. I felt so proud to be there and was so happy for her! I just wish one day it'll happen to me too - walking down the aisle =]

You see, I've been anticipating to see Gaga's artRave: The ARTPOP Ball since the release of her ARTPOP album and I wasn't disappointed at all! Honestly, it's way better than her Born This Way Ball in 2012. In contrast, Kylie's Kiss Me Once Tour was not as good as her Aphrodite: Les Folies Tour in 2011 but it's still camp (as it should be) and fun, and my friend Patrick, an O2 concert-virgin, had a blast of his life!

This year I've done a fair bit of traveling thanks to my job - Taipei, Newcastle (Ireland), Rome, Sofia (Bulgaria) and Istanbul were some of my big trips, and I'd like to do more in 2015!